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Yeah I’m giving him the respect and gratitude he deserved during our relationship cause he was amazing. Focusing on the positives only ! I really hope we get to share these with them at some point too 🙂
I’m have a really difficult time with no contact. Like he’s deleted me off social media and stuff. I seriously love him so much, I’ve felt sick since we haven’t been together. I can’t even eat anything. Its only been a few days but I just want a hug from him. I was talking to my dad and he’s like “you can resuscitate a dead corpse” referring to my ex and our relationship. It’s killing me
Hahaha well its gonna sound stupid but 3 days. We only broke up the other day and so today is day 3. These first few days have been really hard I’ve been crying heaps and I’ve called in sick to work. I just haven’t been able to work these last few days, especially cause i work in retail its such a downer. I’m a massive clinger obviously haha and am reading into every little thing he’s done, such as deleting me off social media, but keeping my best friend and not asking to be taken off our joint private health.
Yeah he deleted the few of my other friends and me off there. She also sent him a message the night we broke up saying “I’m expecting to be deleted but I just wanted to say thanks for the good times, I enjoyed getting to know you”. He responded “Thanks I just can’t do this with Nat(me) anymore. Look after her for me though”.
So he could have deleted her as she was expecting it and said so to him so it would have made it so much easier. But other than that they don’t communicate. I’m also interested in what he meant by saying “look after her”. I’m probably just reading too much into everything cause I just want to be so hopeful about everything and us in the future.
I just miss him. AS in another forum posted this quote “Even though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending”. This is exactly the mindset I have and I really want us to have an amazing ending. I know I’m probably reading in too much into him keeping my best friend on Facebook though, I’m just hoping its a little sign, just as him not contacting me and asking to be taken off our private health account that we have together.
My best friend and I are pretty close. I’ve known her for a few years and she’s 6 years older than me and quite wise. I’ve been talking to her most about the break up just as I’m sure my ex would expect because she always has good advice. However I’m not digging it haha she’s like don’t get you’re hopes up it probably won’t happen blah blah blah.
But do enlighten me on this male perspective haha. And how do you know that he kept her to not cut it off completely? Have you had experience doing this kind of thing ?
AS, that is such an amazing quote ! I just have no idea how to convince my ex that I’m dead serious about it this time. Like in all our arguments he was like “we can’t keep doing it like this” and then when he broke up with me it was the final argument that broke the camels back as they say. But its like his warnings didn’t do anything, its now that he’s left me that its been a huge kick up the butt to change and do anything for him cause I definitely want a future with him. But I’m scared cause he looks like he’s cutting me out by deleting me off Facebook, and deleting my friends (except for my best friend, which I find odd), and unfollowing me on instagram.
For some reason I don’t think he will contact her so its confusing why he left her and it just sucks he had to remove me from everything, I don’t get it. And I’m just so worried we might not get back together. I want a family with this man someday. Do you think after a month of no contact and his anger fades that he would want to meet up with me. He always said when we fought that it needed to change and we shouldn’t push each other to that extreme and it was so hard on him but I didn’t really change. Its only when somethings gone do you realise what you had and I want to work so hard on changing that but I don’t want it to be too late!
