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I personally don’t think it’s a great idea to wait Weeks to reach out again. And if she’s been initiating contact I’m sure she’ll want you to reach out to her. So I say reach out and just bring up something from your night out. Say you was thinking about her. My opinion
Well from experience I know you’re going to think about every detail of what may happen on that day and after that day you two meet up. When you meet up be aware that females and males are different. As a woman I know we take a lot about our emotions. Let her Talk. While she’s talking listen to her perspective and try and put yourself in her shoes. If it helps write your thoughts down ( remember this is serious) and take it one step at a time. Perseverance is key.
We broke up a year ago. And I realized after 6 months that I was letting go of my soul mate. We’ve been together since I was 17 and I’m currently 25. We haven’t been apart for more than a few days. We was newly engaged when I broke up with him because of some issues we was having.
No contact didn’t really work for me. We have a child together. And no contact was torture lol. I broke up with him. I did minimal contact. We spoke regarding our child and only when he reached out. I went 6 weeks without seeing him. I contacted him and set up a day for us to talk and spend family time with our child. I told him how i felt. And that day was a turning point. We began to spend time here and there about 3 times in the month of February. Once march hit his actions showed what i knew he felt inside but was too angry to acknowledge. he soon started opening up. Verbally saying he loves me.His best friend contacted me.telling me how much my boo loves me and other wonderful stuff. Yesterday my boo told me that I’m the only woman he wants and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. So it can be done! Very hard. Many days I cried and didn’t want to move. All I thought about was getting my family back! And with support and prayer I have them!
I think I’m going to cancel it. I’m afraid I’ll get hurt and i don’t want to upset him. I’m in love with him and i can’t believe this is happening
I already called 🙁 he didn’t answer. I feel like such an idiot! Monday i wanted to talk about our relationship as well. I don’t know if i can hold my feelings in. I just feel like he hates me. When all i want is his heart.
Thanks for responding. Ok so my ex and i was together for nearly 7 years engaged and all. We had several differences which led to our breaking up. We have a 2 year old son together. And NO contact is hard. Our communication hasn’t been good at all. So i decided to ask him to meet me at the mall this coming Monday so we can talk about everything . He agreed to come. He said he’d call me back in an hour and that was 4 hours ago. Should I call him back? And I’m nervous about Monday. I want to write out my feelings so i get to the point easier because i tend to ramble (well when it comes to him )
First time meeting this friend. And it was a guy. He was affectionate when he asked about the engagement ring. I asked him what would it mean. He said he knows I’ll be his wife. I just left it at that. Also last night he said some changes are going to happen next week i asked him to explain he said don’t worry it’s good for both of us. Idk what that means!
But over the past few weeks he’s shared so much with ne about how he feels. He mentions my engagement ring all the time. Thursday he asked if i wanted it back! Also a friend of his got into his car he introduced me as his girlfriend. I didn’t react the way i wanted to and i didn’t ask him about it after his friend left. The thing I’m having difficulty with is he’s going back and forth. Meaning everything can be positive and happy and then he disappears. I asked him about it and he said he’s torn. Is this a bad thing? I know for a fact that he loves me! I know he wants to be with me! I just don’t know if he’s ready or if he knows how to go about it. Idk how to just be his friend. And he said he doesn’t either… what do you guys think?
