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I think I’m going to cancel it. I’m afraid I’ll get hurt and i don’t want to upset him. I’m in love with him and i can’t believe this is happening
Caz, please don’t be sad! It’s just emotions. Your mind is playing tricks on you, making it feel like a hopeless situation, and it really isn’t. I know the feeling, you have guilt mixed into the equation, which is never helpful. But you are strong enough to get through this, and I am sure he cares a lot for you. You have both been through a lot together and it is impossible for him not to think about the good times you had together.
My emotions did get the better of me! Just wish I could see him or speak to him but I’m afraid of the rejection.
How are you today?
Well the main thing is you were strong and did not contact him! I really don’t know how I feel. A great day yesterday, but thinking about the situation again.
Obviously, she likes this other guy a lot, otherwise her parents and best friend would not have friend requested him. Although, he is being elusive and not accepting the requests. Something tells me that she is fully immersed in this relationship 🙁
I was! I kept thinking don’t throw away the last 18 days!
It’s so hard not to think about it but keep busy I’ve start making a 2000 piece jigsaw 🙂
Why is he not requesting them that would be my question! If he’s in a relationship with Her surely he would have accepted
That is true, yes. I am not sure. But one thing for sure – all the effort is coming from her side 🙁 who knows. I am so confused. Maybe she liked the other guy more than me anyhow, and all this stuff about parents etc was just an excuse… 🙁
That is such a great idea! I jigsaw will definitely take your mind off of things! And exactly, we have built this thing up much now, that breaking it would be unthinkable! I hope you have a much better day today. Plus, you start a new job, which means you will also get to meet lot’s of new exciting people!
Keep positive!
I still don’t think it’s her to be honest just her friends and family, like you said to me last night about my ex she still loves you!
I know I have a lot of good going for me.
DAY 19 nearly 3 weeks 🙂
I know, 3 weeks soon! We have done so well, Caz! We will keep strong!
I dunno, our relationship wasn’t that long, who knows. She had insecurity issues. At the moment I do not have that much hope. But I will just keep going and build myself up again. I feel better, just resigned tbf.
I hate the uncertainty, not knowing what is going on in their minds.
We have done brilliantly! so I’m smiling that I have done so well please do the same 🙂
It is hard not knowing what they are thinking but they will be thinking were have we gone
Yes, we should be proud! Imagine if we carried on messaging them! I think we have done amazing. haha
And yes, they will definitely be thinking where we have gone! Imagine someone texting you constantly for weeks, and then stops. You would definitely wonder!
Haha! Exactly, I was thinking the same thing lol.
Yes, I think they will be! But I am hoping that my ex is not too busy chasing someone else… ok, I should just not think like that.
My friend told me that from a girl’s perspective, it puts you off so much when someone acts the way I acted. Ok, I am having a bad day. I need to redirect my attention.
Please, keep strong yourself. We will get to 3 weeks and feel good again soon!
It is off putting! That’s what I have learned, the more needy and desperate we were we pushed them further away…
You are aloud to have bad days but they do get better, I had a good cry last night and woke up so much better 🙂
Once I hit the 3 week mark I will feel so much better
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