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  • January 31, 2015 at 12:45 pm #28081
    maren88
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    So sorry to hear that Caz, but I am sure that at one point he will talk to you. He can´t ignore you forever, you were a big part of his life.

    January 31, 2015 at 12:48 pm #28083
    Caz15
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    To be honest I don’t think he will and that will be his loss!

    January 31, 2015 at 12:59 pm #28088
    maren88
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    I´m sad to hear that. After being there for him through the sickness I think he owe you to be polite and respond at some point.

    January 31, 2015 at 1:10 pm #28094
    Caz15
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    I’m sad too but nothing can be done unfortunately!

    I went through a lot with him but he said not to put to use that against him as I hurt him too much when I drank!

    January 31, 2015 at 1:54 pm #28104
    Caz15
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    @Libertine1 are you here?

    January 31, 2015 at 2:12 pm #28110
    Libertine1
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    Hey Caz! Had a good day with my dad and his friends. Just meeting my friend now. But don’t be so down. Be positive, he hasn’t moved on. Love isn’t a switch you can turn off, no matter what he says. Please don’t be disheartened.

    We are both in the same boat. I think April will be a really good time. So you have any holidays or trips lined up in the meantime?

    January 31, 2015 at 2:20 pm #28113
    Caz15
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    I’m so glad your having a good day and around family 🙂

    I’ve cried most of the day which I havent in about 2 weeks, I’ve nothing lined up just going to try & concentrate on my new job!

    Sorry just having a really bad day 🙁

    January 31, 2015 at 3:42 pm #28127
    maren88
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    It’s definitely he’s lost Caz.

    January 31, 2015 at 3:42 pm #28129
    Caz15
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    Thank you 🙂

    I will try and support you as much as I can

    January 31, 2015 at 3:56 pm #28133
    maren88
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    Thank you. I really appreciate all the advise I get. Feeling a bit down today as well.

    January 31, 2015 at 4:23 pm #28139
    Mj321
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    Hi everyone! Can someone give me some advice?

    January 31, 2015 at 4:25 pm #28140
    Caz15
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    @mj321 what’s up?

    January 31, 2015 at 4:34 pm #28143
    Mj321
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    Thanks for responding. Ok so my ex and i was together for nearly 7 years engaged and all. We had several differences which led to our breaking up. We have a 2 year old son together. And NO contact is hard. Our communication hasn’t been good at all. So i decided to ask him to meet me at the mall this coming Monday so we can talk about everything . He agreed to come. He said he’d call me back in an hour and that was 4 hours ago. Should I call him back? And I’m nervous about Monday. I want to write out my feelings so i get to the point easier because i tend to ramble (well when it comes to him )

    January 31, 2015 at 4:51 pm #28152
    Caz15
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    Ok first of all don’t stress, do not call him let him call you! he has already agreed to meet which is good.

    Communication will be hard especially as you have a child together but keep it simple and to the point on Monday, access, money, come to an agreement! Do not be needy and tell him everything it will arise his curousity that your not needy or desperate.

    Get a pen and paper and write it all down and the shred it, it’s clears your mind

    January 31, 2015 at 5:20 pm #28164
    Mj321
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    I already called 🙁 he didn’t answer. I feel like such an idiot! Monday i wanted to talk about our relationship as well. I don’t know if i can hold my feelings in. I just feel like he hates me. When all i want is his heart.

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