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  • in reply to: need advice please #16461
    Mj321
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    @N how are you?

    So i don’t think i ever completely did nc.. we have a child. So i just didn’t reach out if he didn’t

    in reply to: need advice please #16454
    Mj321
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    Oh wow! Ok well have an awesome night!

    in reply to: need advice please #16450
    Mj321
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    I completely understand. My mind goes all over the place.
    Can i get your perspective on a few new things that have recently taken place?

    in reply to: need advice please #16433
    Mj321
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    @JL i believe you two will be together again! Everything sounds promising! Faith is key!

    in reply to: need advice please #16425
    Mj321
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    That’s a great thing @JL! She cares what you think and she thought of you.

    in reply to: need advice please #16009
    Mj321
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    I spent everyday since Thursday with him!!! 🙂 He told me he still has the engagement ring! He said he does want to be with me and it won’t be 1-2 years (like he originally said) much sooner. Very positive weekend! Yesterday he was a bit cranky because he had a headache and was feeling overwhelmed. He kinda took it out on me, i didn’t like it. So today we only communincated about our son. Should i just focus on the positive and give him even more space?

    I told him i would back off and he said no very quickly. Idk

    in reply to: need advice please #16008
    Mj321
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    @N how are you?

    @JL
    have you heard anything from her since your meeting?

    in reply to: need advice please #15799
    Mj321
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    That’s awesome!! I’m so happy for you. It definitely is a great sign!

    in reply to: need advice please #15611
    Mj321
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    That moment he tells you you’re the only one who can understand him! !!

    in reply to: need advice please #15567
    Mj321
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    Too many emotions come up in a private place. Trust me i cried too many times lol. And he said he was going to come over my place on Friday. Our son will be in school. I’m nervous!

    in reply to: need advice please #15566
    Mj321
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    His mother invited me over. He laid his head in my lap and was falling asleep. Then he got up and told me he’d be back in an hour. Then he said I’ll even take our son.
    Outside is best because too much can happen in your house

    in reply to: need advice please #15553
    Mj321
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    He popped up again. But i think his cousin might have told him i was at his mom’s house

    in reply to: need advice please #15540
    Mj321
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    Everytime i asked him if he still loves me he said yes. I also asked him if we have a chance and hes said yes. I broke down crying one time and he held me and i told him that i am afraid he said he understands then i asked if we have a chance and he said yes not now. I don’t think he would lie. I don’t think his mom would lie. But not seeing him or talking to him makes my mind wander all over the place. I’m nervous. We was engaged.we have a child. I love him.

    in reply to: need advice please #15537
    Mj321
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    I am afraid. I want him to reach out to me. I don’t want to ask him to spend time and get turned down. I want to reach out but if I’m doing minimal contact i can’t. It hurts.I’m in love with him.

    in reply to: need advice please #15532
    Mj321
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    I want him to think of the future with us. But i want him to want me. I want him to think of me. And I’m at his mom’s house and his cousin is talking about him i feel its intentional . I feel so uncomfortable

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