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  • #15803
    JL
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    Thanks πŸ™‚ but im glad its over today,didnt slept too much last night because little brother asked me to drive him to the city at night. must say i was supriced that she stayed that long because she didnt had too much sleep last night too because neighbors, going to take it slow i only asked her that can i get her to see movie with me some time or go walk or play games with me πŸ˜€ will see what happens only time will tell but start was pretty good.

    #15997
    JL
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    Mj32 going better with your ex too? im taking that its a good sign too that we communicate with my ex after that saturday few text”s yesterday few text during a day just normal stuff that i tough she wasnt bought yet and sayed what price i saw it at the shop and at evening she asked me how to clean hiking shoes with whats app and i called her and she answered right away..we talked 5min but im glad communication is getting better and she is not avoiding me πŸ˜€

    #16008
    Mj321
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    @N how are you?

    @JL
    have you heard anything from her since your meeting?

    #16009
    Mj321
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    I spent everyday since Thursday with him!!! πŸ™‚ He told me he still has the engagement ring! He said he does want to be with me and it won’t be 1-2 years (like he originally said) much sooner. Very positive weekend! Yesterday he was a bit cranky because he had a headache and was feeling overwhelmed. He kinda took it out on me, i didn’t like it. So today we only communincated about our son. Should i just focus on the positive and give him even more space?

    I told him i would back off and he said no very quickly. Idk

    #16218
    JL
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    Mj321 Not much only few text related to stuff i bought and she wanted to know how it worked and i send her yesterday text to grats her name day and i got back thanks! all tough i send her text later that day,that she is wrong about the thing she thinks its part of her personality ( she sayed at saturday that she thinks its part of her personality to fear people) so i text her that she is wrong about it and her beatifull smile is part of her personality because she got it allways with her and can make it any time she wanted and not fear because i betting when she was happy and in love with me she didnt carry that fear with her. havent heard anything after that from my ex but i felted that i needed to say that to her

    #16311
    JL
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    Hmm interesting friday because my ex gf send me a text to what app that she is at her worksplace”s Christmas party and i didnt even ask where she was,i only text her to be aware to fb hack because readed it from new”s and one text that i got wrong mail and didnt get what i ordered today what made me laugh πŸ˜€ Is it a good sign that ex gf tells you where she is even you havent even asked?

    #16425
    Mj321
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    That’s a great thing @JL! She cares what you think and she thought of you.

    #16431
    JL
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    πŸ™‚ yeah i tough little of that Mj321 and she told she was little tipsy in good way in there and had fun,i text her back that if i was there i would take her to dance if there was dance music but there wasnt and she didnt say she would refuse to my dance ask πŸ˜€ and texted what she was going to do at this weekend,was seeing her brother and one her woman friend and sayed she got time of from work monday to wednessday and texted that she might come play game with me. Texted a little yesterday thanked her from her gift what she bought me ages ago because i got smoke smell in to my house and use that smell candle and send pic of that candle on use and sayed now my feng shui is fixed in my place,because when i got that candle she sayed that i got feng shui mixed up πŸ˜€ and i got few messages back about how to use it and thumbs up smiley and heart smiley..im hoping that heart smiley is something good because i havent got that kinda smileys looong time last time when we was together so hoping im going good way πŸ™‚ i havent text or anything her today because sayed that i was busy like i have been,maybe text her tomorrow if she dont do it first and ask wich day when she comes over to my place πŸ™‚

    #16433
    Mj321
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    @JL i believe you two will be together again! Everything sounds promising! Faith is key!

    #16448
    JL
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    Thanks Mj321 i hope that too but not rushing things because we met just about a week ago again from my ANC and talked again so taking things smooth and cool and just asking to meet her time to time.but dunno can i resist kissing her πŸ˜€ im just hoping things would go that we that she would start calling me πŸ™‚ It”s just im hoping not do any mistakes and push her away and i hope that she is dating anybody at the moment,tough she wouldnt say to me while we met that she had bad day when she felt like a crying at her home,heh maybe im thinking too much but better be prepared to anything…heh maybe it good when i think negative thinks a little because when the time comes and im back with my ex ( i hope ) i bet i will be very happy that those toughts where wrong…faith and patience will be my key πŸ™‚

    #16450
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    I completely understand. My mind goes all over the place.
    Can i get your perspective on a few new things that have recently taken place?

    #16453
    JL
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    Sure Mj321 but my answer might take a while because its 23.29 in finland and im going to sleep πŸ™‚

    #16454
    Mj321
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    Oh wow! Ok well have an awesome night!

    #16458
    N
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    Hello there mj321 I am here if u want to share

    #16460
    N
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    My nc finishes in a week! And I can’t believe I made it through, it’s been so hard

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