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November 12, 2014 at 8:07 am #15532
I want him to think of the future with us. But i want him to want me. I want him to think of me. And I’m at his mom’s house and his cousin is talking about him i feel its intentional . I feel so uncomfortable
November 12, 2014 at 8:44 am #15535Well,when you get the chance see him and possibility to spend time with him bigger time that dropping the kids get together just two of you some place nice and quiet and just talk and just be near to him, from man view the want to wanting you when you can see the other near you in nice relax situation..or just smile him when you meet short time i bet he hasnt forgett you or your body π π because i havent forgott my ex and we men are short wired like that when it comes to sex and intimacy π
November 12, 2014 at 8:51 am #15537I am afraid. I want him to reach out to me. I don’t want to ask him to spend time and get turned down. I want to reach out but if I’m doing minimal contact i can’t. It hurts.I’m in love with him.
November 12, 2014 at 9:00 am #15539Like you sayed that he still see future with you and rest of the family,that time when he reach out to you will come,you shouldnt worry. I would be worried if i was similiar situation and other part dont got plan to be with me at some point. all tough im getting little more nervous every day and soon the saturday comes..because even tough we have sett the date and talked with my ex i got little fear that she dont come or text me that she dont want to see me after all.. but im trying to be positive and be on limited connection to her. asked tough that at saturday does she come to my place first or do we meet outside somewhere.. she havent answered yet..
November 12, 2014 at 9:07 am #15540Everytime i asked him if he still loves me he said yes. I also asked him if we have a chance and hes said yes. I broke down crying one time and he held me and i told him that i am afraid he said he understands then i asked if we have a chance and he said yes not now. I don’t think he would lie. I don’t think his mom would lie. But not seeing him or talking to him makes my mind wander all over the place. I’m nervous. We was engaged.we have a child. I love him.
November 12, 2014 at 10:33 am #15548I know some way the feeling, i had/have similiar feeling with my ex when she sayed we need to be apart for while one point after our breakup and when i tough i never ever would able to talk or see her again and i text bomb her all the things from my mind..
I got my answer to my question where we meet before we go in the teahouse, i asked do we meet outside or in my place she send me shortly outside ( i quess she was at work) hmm and now i went to think why outside π but we havent see each other for hmm over couple of months and i bet she might be nervous like im atleast im hoping to that,because if she shows up there with somebody i would just walk away..question to women here π when you havent seen your ex bf and you two was going to meet wich one you would prefer teahouse or similiar place or he”s house where to see each other first for a long time πNovember 12, 2014 at 11:48 am #15553He popped up again. But i think his cousin might have told him i was at his mom’s house
November 12, 2014 at 1:17 pm #15563Well that a positive sign and i think his family is trying to get two of you speak more or something..was you invited to his moms house or did you go there by yourself?
November 12, 2014 at 1:25 pm #15566His mother invited me over. He laid his head in my lap and was falling asleep. Then he got up and told me he’d be back in an hour. Then he said I’ll even take our son.
Outside is best because too much can happen in your houseNovember 12, 2014 at 1:29 pm #15567Too many emotions come up in a private place. Trust me i cried too many times lol. And he said he was going to come over my place on Friday. Our son will be in school. I’m nervous!
November 12, 2014 at 11:34 pm #15611That moment he tells you you’re the only one who can understand him! !!
November 14, 2014 at 10:54 am #15716Mj321 nice π im getting nervous here myself π cleaned house and sweaped all dust away and did a lot of stuff..stupid thing goes all around my mind that if i get text today or tomorrow that my ex dont want to see me then what i do or say..
November 15, 2014 at 9:46 am #15795damn i was nervous this morning and i tough i didnt see my ex gf today because she over slept and the time we was supposed to see,she woked up π well we met at teahouse door and we hugged went in and buyed food and talked dunno how long,then we went to my place talked and played a little pc game together while we talked little more normal stuff like how was going and all other things,she even cancelled other meeting from her woman friend because it was getting late and she stayed with me.watched some old cartoon too π and when she was at door and ready to leave she remembered that she had wool sock”s for me what she had found and started to knit them again so she comed back in and finished them,during our meeting we touched each others hands hugged alot she laughed and seemed had fun π and i even kissed her few time and she didnt say nothing about it and i kissed her when she was leaving before she remembered those wool sokc”s so i think she didnt freak out or anything because i kissed her and i sayed to her that i wanted to do that the first moment i set my eyes on her because she looked so good..i hope i will see her again…
November 15, 2014 at 9:48 am #15797and she spend time with me like little over 5 hours so i hope its a good sign ;D
November 15, 2014 at 10:02 am #15799That’s awesome!! I’m so happy for you. It definitely is a great sign!
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