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  • #15327
    JL
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    Yeah time is the worst enemy because you cant make every day in your life so full to do stuff that i dont end up to think the past, you end up someday to be with only yourself and then you start thinking stuff.. i know because i did that too..and this week im counting days and nights till end of the week πŸ˜€

    #15328
    Mj321
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    Omg he just popped up at my house

    #15341
    N
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    what happened??

    #15342
    Mj321
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    Well he hasn’t really said much. He was watching me walk around my house. He picked up my cell phone. I made plans to go out before he came over so he’s offering to give me a ride. I said no thank you. He asked me where am i going. Mind you he’s supposed to be in school right now.

    #15343
    N
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    Niice!!! keep on doing what you’re doing!

    #15344
    Mj321
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    Thank you. He walked me to the car lol.

    #15443
    Mj321
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    @N what did you decide ?

    #15447
    N
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    @Mj321 I didn’t send him anything because i read that you can’t break NC even in occasions

    #15448
    Mj321
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    Ok And how does that make you feel?

    #15451
    N
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    I dont feel guilty but I feel sad that he didn’t reach out to me

    #15456
    Mj321
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    I understand. Did you get the results? How are you feeling?

    #15524
    JL
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    N maybe he contacts later some time..my ex contacted me 5 days later during when i was ANC ( active no contac ) after i text her everything i wanted to say to her..and off the topic πŸ™‚ but just got message from my ex that her x-ray was nothing serious and i take it as a good sign that she send that info by herself and i didnt even contact her today at all..of course i answered the text. can i get woman”s opinion to 1 thing?i talked to my ex gf yesterday on Fb messaging and i didnt even asked what was she doing same time we texted each other a little but she told me, okey it was little thing that she was eating a salad and told me what was in there, is it a good sign?

    #15525
    Mj321
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    Yes it’s a good thing. If i wasn’t interested in you or comfortable i wouldn’t conversate at all. So i take it as good. Just don’t over think it.
    Can i get your perspective?

    #15527
    Mj321
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    My love hasn’t reached out to me in almost a week. We have a child together. Although he popped up on me the other day. And i spoke with his mom and she said she spoke with him. He told her that he is hurt but he does plan on being with me eventually. That we just have to work on some things. But he hasn’t reached out to me. How do i know he’s thinking of me?

    #15529
    JL
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    im luckily not over thinking it.its just little surprising after they way she was texting me earlier because it was mostly ( ok ) or something short and no :)/ πŸ˜€ well you get the idea.. but i bet he is thinking you because you got child together it the moment what you cant forgett ever and he just need time.. i know how you are feeling because i had those moments too with my ex because we after our break up didnt speak at all some times a week or two weeks and you get the fear they have forgott you and move on or something other bad thing comes to mind..if you are thinking him i bet he is thinking you too πŸ™‚ think that way because he is planning future with you..

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