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@N how are you?
So i don’t think i ever completely did nc.. we have a child. So i just didn’t reach out if he didn’t
But over the past few weeks he’s shared so much with ne about how he feels. He mentions my engagement ring all the time. Thursday he asked if i wanted it back! Also a friend of his got into his car he introduced me as his girlfriend. I didn’t react the way i wanted to and i didn’t ask him about it after his friend left. The thing I’m having difficulty with is he’s going back and forth. Meaning everything can be positive and happy and then he disappears. I asked him about it and he said he’s torn. Is this a bad thing? I know for a fact that he loves me! I know he wants to be with me! I just don’t know if he’s ready or if he knows how to go about it. Idk how to just be his friend. And he said he doesn’t either… what do you guys think?
Have you met this friend before or was it first time meeting? and man or woman friend? i bet he like”s you what about the ring questions is the mood good vibe? or just asking?maybe he is opening up to you little by little but might got fear too that he might go too fast for both of yours sake and that why pulling back,because he is still torn and i bet he dont wanna hurt you..give it time and enjoy happy moments and i hope over time things will get good for him and he can be that what you wanted for you 100% 🙂
First time meeting this friend. And it was a guy. He was affectionate when he asked about the engagement ring. I asked him what would it mean. He said he knows I’ll be his wife. I just left it at that. Also last night he said some changes are going to happen next week i asked him to explain he said don’t worry it’s good for both of us. Idk what that means!
Ok.so he is teasing you a little and i hope its good news what will happen,
i texted my ex gf and asked what is her plans to rest of the day because i just got home,she replied that not much cleaning clothing closet ( if thats the right word) and making food and going fleemarket or whats it called when you go buy used stuff 😀 so testex her back do she wanna come over my place today or tomorrow? no answer yet tough it has been only 30min..Oh well seems not today,after 2 hours i get only short text not today lets see tomorrow..im hoping she didnt get upsett that i didnt answer her heart smiley…no offence but women are hard to read and understand some times 😀 specially when you dont wanna fuck things up 😀
So i met my ex today,she called me that she was at city and sayed that she could come over to my place to play games,we played and talked a little normal stuff and she spend time with me like little over 3 hours,when she was leaving i kissed her and we hugged and i asked more serious question from her,she sayed that she was little scared of me even today because her fear of people and that she dont feel any sexual or feelings towards me and she is going to be single because its right thing for her at the moment because she has things to clear and she has tough that been in relationship with somebody wouldnt work at this time,but he is seeing somebody time to time ( just for sex ) i bet because she sayed that she dont got any crush to anybody and feels lonely time to time.I sayed that i got attraction towards her beatifull smile and kissed her again and told her that she is important to me and i care her because she has been important person in my life and i asked about utopia question,that what we would be in future is it utopia because it was open to me she sayed that yes its utopia because she likes to hang out with me and i sayed i take that positive 🙂 and she sayed aww thats cute and hugged me..Dunno should i keep trying to ask her spend time with me alltough when i asked would she come play with me or watch more or go to walk she sayed yes and i asked is kissing ok she sayed yes..
Hey Mj321 how was your thanksgiving? heh you kinda can see how im going from my posts and i dunno,should i keep going because so mixed signals from my ex,we might see at weekend not 100% sure asked myself because my ex agreed that she would come to play certain game with me because it has been the game serie what was terapeutic to her play with me when we was together so we might do bonding with it i hope 😀 i havent acted any needy or desperate towards her,only asked what she has felt about funny pics from internet to cheer her up and she sayed there where nice and last weekend she send me a FB message that she is with her parents this weekend at a christmas concert, so im wondering why she tells me stuff that where she is at time to time in her messages even i havent in any point have asked it?? and i told her over text that its good that its nice stuff from funny pics because she is important person to me and i wanna make important persons in my life laugh and cheer up when they feel little bad and also because whe have lived together she can be herself with me and not be shy or be ashamed of anything with me and she can trust me and im not lying to her
was it stupid thing to do??
my ex called to me out of the blue from her work she told me she is feeling bad and has been crying and stuff and was afraid and sayed that she wouldnt know what would she do if she couldnt have me part of her life all tough because whats she is going thru with her ending her depression medication all the negative tought and arguiments from her life spins in her head and she havent been over me because remember only negative toughts, we talked more and she started to feel good and thanked me that i still got the touch to make her feel better just by talking to her,also told me that when she has been with me it has been nice but she some times remembers all the bad things from our past in my place and it makes heel feel little anguished,but one step of the time i think is best to go with now 🙂
My ex opened up to me this evening from whats app.. told how has been going on her life and asked how i was going, we talked a little and i sayed i wanna see her face to face too not all for a far (earlier that day i has been asked to her come to my place to watch movie with me but she told she was going to shop food andwas tired so not coming )she sayed can she? i sayed yes dont got nothing special at the moment and half hour later she was at my place just before 21.00 at evening and we watched tv-serie she wanted to watch instead,we talked a little and whatched that tv-seried mood was relaxing and nice i think even tough she had some few text”s time to time but she sayed its from her parents,we watched all the episodes she wanted to see and she still stayed for a while and was tired because clock was coming to be 23.00 and i was gentleman and i asked if she wanna stay over night i make bed next to my and i saw her thinking it for a little while but she left home,before she left we talked a little more and i hugged her and kissed her and she kissed me a back a little and asked how i was doing i told her im fine and asked her what she got tomorrow and she sayed nothing so i asked her does she wanna come over see the movie she has been wanting to see and what i got,she sayed maybe.. im glad that she seemed to have nice time with me and im hoping to see her again tomorrow..
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