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  • in reply to: need advice please #13488
    Mj321
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    Thanks. That’s what i was thinking. What day are you on again? And how were your emotions today?

    in reply to: need advice please #13486
    Mj321
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    The same thing for me too. Except in my desperation i told him that I’d wait for him. But hopefully with us doing Nc that will spark something in them to see that we’re worth chasing/ fighting for.

    in reply to: need advice please #13485
    Mj321
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    Thank you so much i feel so hopeful now!! Thank you for replying and talking to me! I am trying to show him that i am a better person now. He also recommended counseling. Two weeks ago he told me he feels we are meant to be together but we need to talk with someone. Well today i went for the intake appointment. The next one is next week. Should i bring the counseling up again? Or just continue going for myself during Nc. Then afterwards go from there?

    in reply to: need advice please #13482
    Mj321
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    I believe you have a great chance as well! I think you could still say happy Birthday via text and remain on Nc. Just keep it sweet and short.

    in reply to: need advice please #13479
    Mj321
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    Also he somehow kept winding up with my phone.and even tried to unlock it! Also when i was laughing at videos on ig he was mocking me. My best friend called me and he answered my phone! Is this a good sign? Is this a good thing?

    in reply to: need advice please #13477
    Mj321
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    I’m trying. It’s so hard. Especially knowing that he is seeing that lady. It drives me nuts! I just don’t want him to move on…. We go to church together and yesterday afterwards we went to his mom’s house. He was acting very nice towards me. I was trying not to get to excited since i knew i was going to start Nc today. I saw his mom today and i cried. ( i tried not to ) she told me that it will work out.

    in reply to: need advice please #13475
    Mj321
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    So many spelling errors lol sorry.

    in reply to: need advice please #13474
    Mj321
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    And i was showing him desperation and i know he got annoyed.HE still has his clothes here. And he also layed in bed with me and our son until he fell asleep. Once he was asleep he asked me tk walk him to the door. At the He held me and told me he really loves me. On a difference occasion he said we had a chance to get back together just not now. How should i feel after all of this?

    in reply to: need advice please #13471
    Mj321
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    This is my first time ever doing this. I wanted to know about your experience with Nc the first time. You said this was your second one

    in reply to: need advice please #13467
    Mj321
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    What happened during the 1st NC?

    in reply to: need advice please #13461
    Mj321
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    Thanks for replying. I will try and do that. I am on day 1 and I’m having an emotional day. I just really want this to work. I love him so much.

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