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After 6 long, stressful, painful months i got my boo back! We have been together since 2008. We have a child together. We’re each other’s first love. I’m just elated! I never gave up!
@Mj321 please do tell us how you did it.
Did you go no contact? And for how long?
Was he the one that broke up with you?
Congrats and I like the fact that you never gave up.How did you do it and please answer the questions of @ cantsum,would really appreciate your feedback so we can learn the lessons as well.
No contact didn’t really work for me. We have a child together. And no contact was torture lol. I broke up with him. I did minimal contact. We spoke regarding our child and only when he reached out. I went 6 weeks without seeing him. I contacted him and set up a day for us to talk and spend family time with our child. I told him how i felt. And that day was a turning point. We began to spend time here and there about 3 times in the month of February. Once march hit his actions showed what i knew he felt inside but was too angry to acknowledge. he soon started opening up. Verbally saying he loves me.His best friend contacted me.telling me how much my boo loves me and other wonderful stuff. Yesterday my boo told me that I’m the only woman he wants and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. So it can be done! Very hard. Many days I cried and didn’t want to move. All I thought about was getting my family back! And with support and prayer I have them!
We broke up a year ago. And I realized after 6 months that I was letting go of my soul mate. We’ve been together since I was 17 and I’m currently 25. We haven’t been apart for more than a few days. We was newly engaged when I broke up with him because of some issues we was having.
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