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Hi, im so sorry this happened to you. He broke your heart and maybe he didn’t mean to. Life is life and relationship don’t always last forever unless you are both willing to go through ups and downs together. I can tell you that your feelings won’t last forever. This was me like 10 months ago. I was heartbroken and just had hopes that my ex would be back and reconsider the relationship. We were together for 8 years. Still he gave up on it. So don’t feel bad about it. Your ex just decided he couldn’t be with you any longer. The truth is that relationship are time consuming. I put so much effort in my relationship that right now i just feel relieved. Some people say that men feel relief before sadness and that we feel sad before relief. Im guessing that your ex is feeling relieved from the relationship. But just let time do its magic. He might not handle the emotional distress and maybe comeback. I wish you goodluck!
Hey how are you?
I wanted to update you. Im back in contact with my ex. Now I don’t care about our relationship. I don’t hope on getting back together. I believe that staying in contact is helping me better because I don’t miss him like that. I don’t really know if i still loved him before our break up. I remember i told him I didn’t feel love for him but maybe that was because I had just loss my baby and didn’t care about living. Anyways im very relaxed about life. How about you?
You are right. Thinking it though i told him I didn’t like his family and told him not to stay with someone who doesn’t like them. I guess I sabotaged myself alot. After our break up he asked me why did we cut his phone line. I made the break up official with my actions. I know there is some lovely guy waiting for me out there.
If he really loved you, he will face it and hopefully apologize. Don’t wait for it though. Some people have so much pride that they will never admit they were wrong. You experienced this before. It hurst at first but then you kind of forget.
I see. He is definitely in a rebound. Probably something upset him with you and thats why he decided to break it off. Lets see what the future has for you.
If that rebound fails he will have to face the problems with you.
You know I also do my cryings from time to time. I guess its normal. Thats how you can get some pain out. I cry because I also have no idea what happened. I mean we were together 8 years and living together for 2. So many things happened that any one could of been the problem, but I don’t exactly know. How can we change something we don’t know? My ex told me he didn’t know why it happened. Im sure he knows but doesn’t want to say it.
We have like 8 months that he followed through with my break up decition. So We will never be back together. I say that he broke up with me but in reality i was so mad i broke up with him and then called to get back together but he said no. The big rejection after everything we have been through together.
6-7 weeks doesn’t sound like you got through the whole honeymoon phase. I won’t give you any hope here. Most of the relationship that end before 3 months, meant nothing.
I don’t understand why the break up happened. Was he the player type? I need more info on the relationship.
Anyway if he doesn’t reach out to apologize soon for what he did to you, he is not worth waiting for. Like Patricia said get on with your life.
Hi Mariah, im doing fine. Still single and not ready to mingle until i find love. My heart is on the market lol. My heart doors has reopened for another love story. I can’t say I forgot my ex is still living but Im on my way to forget. I barely remember though. He hasn’t contacted me. Like they say “Out of sight, out of mind.” How are you doing?
I think out of your heart. You loved him so much. Just know that you can do better too. He doesn’t sound nice at all. First he was beggin for money. Than insulting you and now making you feel less. I don’t think he was good for you. And he never will be.
Ill say he already spoke to gis gf about you. He probably said you’re his crazy ex gf lol. Thats how most men describes their ex. Anyway forget about him. His actions were the worse. Let him be please. One day you will look back and laugh. He thinks that he did it he found someone better. Now I’d say he will never be back. Idk why he lost respect towards you, but he did. He made you open your eyes.
Omg im so sorry. Maybe now you delete his number and won’t reach out anymore. I know it hurts but this is life. Every beginning has an ending. And this was the end of that. Now stick your heart back together, and start all over with someone new.
I believe that you can move on faster than me. Just set your mind to do it. I can’t even think of kissing another man. My heart says move on but my mind needs time. Why does everything has to be so complicated? Ugh
Yes Im strong if that means not replying haha. Im sorry about your date. Don’t be in a relationship with a bad person.
Id say having your number means hes not ready to let go of you. Once he deletes your number he probably wont hear from u again. So id say its a sign that he wants to talk to u in the future.
Same here. I miss my relationship. My best friend and company. He made me feel so special by just being together. In this cold days i miss his heat. Ugh I just can’t believe its over like that. How can a person say he loves you for 8 years and one day act so cold and decide to break it off and be apart from you.
Im going through the whys again but this time im accepting it. I just miss that. This is the first time ever that I go through a long term relationship break up. It sucks!!!Only God knows what will happen later. It hasn’t even been a month that I decided to let go, and i miss him so much. He again texted me a hi how are u msg. I didn’t reply ofcourse because I won’t break my promise and have to stay strong for my baby girl.
Im so sorry about that. I know how you feel. Falling out of love on purpose hurts so bad. You imagine how sad your future will be without him. You also feel bad he lost the best gf ever. We all think that but in fact the opposite happens. You will also cope without your ex. Im sure you will.
You seem to be going through a strugle. It’s normal i went through many of those. You really loved him and you are suffering the loss of the relationship. Probably you miss your friendship. However everything will be ok. I wish you lots of luck on your date.
Im doing very good. My head is on my future. Im always positive that good things are coming. Now I decided to change my major to pharmacist. I have a trip coming up soon. I feel like my life is even better than when i was with him. My life is so much more stable. I also have 0 to little worries. No headaches and no heartaches. Things are really going well. I can say my life doesn’t suck without him.
