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Wow scotch, everything its going very good for you. I think waiting for her to contact you next time, its the right thing to do. You don’t want to look so into her. Even though you are. Also by not contacting her, you don’t make any mistake to your progress. I’m rooting for you here. Good luck!
I don’t know what shes trying to do. I have done it, and its all mind games. Just let her contact you. In the mean time have fun and enjoy life. I’m sure she will start to miss you soon. If you are following the 5 step plan, Did you meet up yet?
If she is willing to go out with you. It means alot. Plan a nice date but don’t call it a date :).
A.z is right. Stick to No Contact. Its very hard but if you love her and wish one day to be with her again, you will do it. No Contact for 30 days and then follow 5 step plan.
Hi, correct me if I’m wrong. You were together for 4 years. I know the break up hurt you bad. Sometimes we say crazy stuff, that we don’t really mean. 2 weeks is still very early to regret a mistake. I suggest you follow the No Contact for 30 days or more. Re-read the 5 step plan. Things change so much after No Contact. I swear it is for the better.
Hello, I truly don’t understand your post. Do you want reconciliation or not?
To answer your question, he seems like he is not happy with what he has. He is trying to get you back in his life with his fiancée around. People make mistakes too. Let time speak. You seem to be doing the right things. Continue what you are doing and stop letting him know so much about you. You guys cannot be friends yet. He seems to be stuck in the past. Plus I see you are trying to move on.Hi Jackson, congrats on following NC for 4 weeks. Now that you opened communication again just wait until it really opens. It wont take so long but don’t always be the one to initiate contact. Let her miss you and contact you. Since you are the man, most of the initiations should be from you, but do not over do it. You are the one whos trying to win her back, so don’t have so much pride. Let things go ahead slowly. Its a long process to get back together and start fresh. Be patient and enjoy the journey of falling in love one more time with her.
Hi Scotch, I too had sex with my ex a week after NC finished. Im the girl here so it’s different. I did not contact after that lovely night. I just took it as a fun night that i badly needed. My ex contacted me 3 days after and started a long conversation with me. He then started talking about that night. I asked if he wanted to do it again. He said yes but then again I dissapeared. NC for a couple of days he reached back to me for 4 days straight every morning. I saw him again we went to have dinner together. I did NC again and today 4 days after he has contacted me.
Scotch, i believe your ex still has feelings for you too. I suggest you try again. Follow your plan and rebuild the trust. Do not ever let her know you want her back. Just let it happen slowly. Im sure it will work. Everything that you have read here its true.
Btw financial issues can break up any couple. I got super stressed too and thats why my relationship went down hill. We had 8 happy years together and 2 years living together. Last year on November 29 sadly we loss our baby girl after her cord was cut she never breathed. It was so hard for the relationship, then I had to recover from a c-section and he loss his job at that time. When we get so much issues, we tend to forget our love life.
Hi craigipops, I have done my 30 days NC already and right on day 31 i got contacted and long conversations too. I finished some on ok and my ex kept asking questions to keep our conversations going. My advice to you is please keep your 30 days NC. Start allover now. You shouldn’t have answered your ex. It was too quick and i assume your ex is only trying to find out if you have moved on.
