leidy1000

Hi Scotch, Im very happy everything its progressing. I applaud you for standing up for love. She said somethings but you saw love in her eyes and persevere to win her back. I really believe she loves you. Slowly but sure you guys will end up together. Can’t wait to see the next update.

Thank you Jackson, I have made a post with my problem. Maybe you can answer there. Being patient is the hardest thing ever. I hate having to go through another NC period, it sucks. That’s why I recommend you to follow each step to the max.

Hello, your relationship reminds me of my high school love. I was once with a boy who I felt nothing for, but still was with him. I then cheated on him and then he forgave me. I thought I fell inlove with him. However, it was like this sick love. I turned into a needy, desperate, and jelouse girl. I drove him away too. I turned into a girl he didn’t see a future with. He dumped me. That was the first time a guy did that. Still to this day it was the only time a guy dumped me. I was so so hurt. At that time the only way to forget him was being with others. I wrote him a letter that he never replied. I loved him so much, and I learned so much after the break up. Thats it, it was all a lesson learned for me. I didn’t believe in the “getting back with an ex.” I screwed up big time.
I continued my life. And found another garbage to fall in love with. Excuse my language. I then left him because it was long distance relationship. Then I started with another garbage. I loved all those men so so much. Although, that last one cheated. I cheated too and stood with the guy I cheated with. And he ended up being my high school sweetheart and the one I want back. We had an 8 year relationship that just ended on March.

Im sorry for writing my whole story but I hope you see. That life continues and you will know when you really need someone back. Moving on its very hard at first but gets easier once you meet another boy. My advice to you its to continue to win him back. Also, try to change and show him all that you changed. Be the girl he sees a future with. I’m rooting for you. I do believe in second chances, and he might give you one. By the way, moving on will always hurt, no matter the time you spent together. Lots of patience to you. I wish you the best.

Thank you Scotch. Positive vibes to you too.

Alligator, I know how you feel. It has happened to me, but you know you will need alot of patience. Maybe your ex will take his time to reply. Could be busy, worried of personal issues, or just playing mind games. Be prepared for all of that. It can take time to recieve a reply. Also, be prepared for your ex to take you back to square one. However, now you know better and not contacting for a couple of days will heal that. Update us on that. Good luck!

It’s definitely moving forward. We have met a couple of times. He has been very loving just like when we were together. Kisses me and all that cute stuff. I still do the No Contact to give him time to miss me and invite me out. The first time we met I invited. The second time was his idea. Now the third time will be this weekend. It was a mutual idea. Like I said sometimes I initiate contact, then disappear to do No contact until he contacts. He never takes more than a week to contact.

I won’t lie to you. After finishing the No Contact, meeting up, seeing he still in love with me and him letting me still be the only girl he meets, has make things so much better for me in terms of the emotional feelings. Not Contacting is now so much easier. I feel much happier when I don’t contact him and he doesn’t contact me. I guess thats the results of NC. Anyways Im sure I want to continue with him. I wish you so much luck. I hope that when NC finishes, you can have alot of patience. This is hard enough. I do get anxious sometimes and want this to be faster and be together, but it doesn’t work like that. To have a long lasting relationship you have to re star. Do not try to pick up where you left it, because it wont work.