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  • in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109757
    leidy1000
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    I try not to over think to make it easier. Im not too sure we are going this Tuesday. He has been contacting me every morning.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109755
    leidy1000
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    Im good thank you. Congratulations to you. 37 days its amazing. Keep doing a good job.
    I might see my ex this Tuesday. We might go to the babys grave if it doesn’t rain hard.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109702
    leidy1000
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    Oh great now make it 40 days. Exes don’t take more than 2 months to reach out. Even if he still with her, he can contact you.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109700
    leidy1000
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    I thought this was that my ex reached out msg. Anyways your ex will be reaching out soon. When is the 30 day of NC?

    And im ok. Playing my cards but one step at the time. My ex told me he really wants to the babys grave. I just asked day and time. He said Tuesday after 12. I just said we will plan it. To tell ya you the truth im exhausted on Tuesdays. Thats why I didn’t plan it for tomorrow. Another thing I asked him why does he remembers our good times? He said I always do dont you? I said sometimes. I got fresh and said that means you miss me? He said yes don’t you miss me too? I took an hour to answer that and asked what do you think? He said we will see. I asked how? He said time will tell. We changed the conversation. Then I asked do you dream about me? He said yes, and made me answer that. I also said yes and then goodnight haha. That was it. I let you know anything else later on.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109690
    leidy1000
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    Sometimes do nothing is the answer. Yesterday I was going to contact my ex because I missed him but I kept doing hw and he texted me. Im so glad I didn’t break.

    I don’t think he broke up with her because he hasn’t even contacted you. If he doesn’t reach out once that means you shouldn’t neither. You don’t know if they are together.

    Oh wow your date sounds fun lol.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109687
    leidy1000
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    I decided to play my cards and see where it goes. Im going to take a risk and follow my heart. Even if I fail.

    I forgot to ask you. Is it your date from last time?

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109682
    leidy1000
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    Im not doing so good. Im also missing him. He just reached out after not talking to me since monday. I think being friends just messed up my head. I don’t know what to do anymore.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109662
    leidy1000
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    Maybe he did. Maybe he didn’t. It’s hard to tell. Our only friend is time. I just hope everything goes well for us in the future.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109656
    leidy1000
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    I’d say yes he will. He said himself he doesn’t know what he wants. It’s good that you gave him all the space to make a decision without you. Lets see what he choose. Is too early to tell what he chose.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109657
    leidy1000
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    I’d say yes he will. He said himself he doesn’t know what he wants. It’s good that you gave him all the space to make a decision without you. Lets see what he choose. Is too early to tell what he chose.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109653
    leidy1000
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    You haven’t finished NC. Do not think of having any contact yet.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109652
    leidy1000
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    No it’s not a sign. It is a sign that hes trying though.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109649
    leidy1000
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    Don’t break it. Matter of fact keep it and set more days on your goal. You started with 30 days so make it 40. I thought my ex wouldnt reach out after nc. He always did. I showed him I could be happy without him. He never took more than 45 days to reach out. See how far he goes. And I believe you should make mistakes sometimes. So yeah maybe after 40 days say hello and see if he has moved on. Just to check on him message. Don’t try to get back together though. You will just end up hurt.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109643
    leidy1000
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    Imagine, im feeling like you. It’s almost fall so is getting pretty chilly over here. I used to hug him all night. I really enjoyed his arma. Yesterday he texted me it was pretty cold if im wearing a sweater? I just told him it was a nice day. Ugh this sucks. We have to stay strong because we were born alone and dying alone. We don’t need anyone else.

    in reply to: Is it too late for NC? #109636
    leidy1000
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    Im so glad for you. Thats the right mindset. Just keep up your NC. It will make you stronger to handle this situation. Whenever he wants to reach out, he has your number.

    You haven’t gone on another date neither?

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