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My ex boyfriend dumped me after dating for 3 months.He said he wants to focus on his life & school stuffs and he can’t give his time for me anymore.He said he is no longer happy to be with me when he can’t focus on our relationship and how I won’t be happy too.He told me he now only wants to be happy with me as friends and to find someone who can take care of me.He also told me he won’t be angry if I’ve already moved on.When I asked him if he no longer loves me,he said he still loves me.He said it’s not like he’s seeing someone else.He just can’t feel anything about relationships.When I asked him if we still have another chance after school,he hesitated.His answer was like”Let’s be friends until school’s over and we date again”and then it quickly changed to”I’m not sure if we can meet again after school.Let’s just be FRIENDS.”It’s been a week since the breakup.He looks happy and doing ok with his friends..without me.Like he’s really fine with the breakup.I deleted our nicknames and emoji on messenger after we’ve talked face to face at school.I also sent him a”thanks for everything”message but he doesn’t even read it until then.He read every msgs from our friends in group chats.Just not my msg.I really want to know what’s going on in his mind guys.How can he recover from the breakup that easily?He said he loves me.Does it mean he no longer has feelings for me?Has he moved on completely?Do we really not have another chance?
Hi, im so sorry this happened to you. He broke your heart and maybe he didn’t mean to. Life is life and relationship don’t always last forever unless you are both willing to go through ups and downs together. I can tell you that your feelings won’t last forever. This was me like 10 months ago. I was heartbroken and just had hopes that my ex would be back and reconsider the relationship. We were together for 8 years. Still he gave up on it. So don’t feel bad about it. Your ex just decided he couldn’t be with you any longer. The truth is that relationship are time consuming. I put so much effort in my relationship that right now i just feel relieved. Some people say that men feel relief before sadness and that we feel sad before relief. Im guessing that your ex is feeling relieved from the relationship. But just let time do its magic. He might not handle the emotional distress and maybe comeback. I wish you goodluck!
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