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I think that sounds good. She can obviously see your improvements you’ve made 🙂 she said keep in contact, but I would wait for her to contact you, coz she will!
@ellie96 I’m ok thank you actually. It kind of hit me yesterday what he actually said and I had a bit of a wobble. But moved past it. I just can’t believe he has been has harsh as he has. I still think that there is more behind it, I don’t think he just “doesn’t want to see me” there must be a reason. But what that reason is I just don’t know. I’m ok to leave him to it. I think one day he will realise but that day won’t be for a long time, and I think by the time he realises it I won’t actually want him back! Even now, if he said to me now he wants me back, it wouldn’t be an easy decision to make. Not like before when I would have jumped at the chance!
@annakis I appreciate your honesty lol. I believe you are spot on my friend. It’s probably due to the fact that this is the first time he would have been chased by a girl. I don’t really see that I am chasing per say…. but you know what I mean. It’s prob gone to his head a little bit!
But regardless, he pushed me too far yesterday. I was feeling AWFUL after that conversation. I didn’t reply to him and I blocked him. Unfortunately I can’t block him from my email at work but IF he does ever contact me I can just delete it.
That is me done now haha
@ellie96 indeed 🙂 I do feel ok about it surprisingly. For the moment anyway lol
That’s exactly what I will do. I have blocked his number so I won’t get any messages from him. And if he emails me I’ll just delete it. I feel ok today. Think it was the final push I needed, he’s not the person I thought he was at all. I also think he’s being influenced by one of his mates he’s become quite close to.
Haha same difference :p
Whatever he wants me to do he has won. Coz I can’t take that, and can’t handle it either. There’s no need for him to be purposely trying to hurt me, whatever the reason behind it may be.Exactly. If he contacts me I will find it hard not to reply. If he doesn’t that will kill me too. I seriously am done now. I have nothing more to give to someone who quite clearly doesn’t want me to!
But I dunno why he wants to hurt me! I’ve done nothing to him. I’m so shocked by his behaviour I really am. I am actually thinking of blocking him so he can’t contact me (not that he will) but just in case he does
Maybe he will but I highly doubt he will. His plan seems to be “let’s hurt her as much as I can so she stops loving me and moves on”.
I won’t text him. Chances are I will see him out in a few weeks as im out the night his birthday is. I will ignore.Guys I know, I shouldn’t have done it. I was doing well not talking to him. I dunno what happened. Well according to him he just doesn’t want to @mj doesnt seem to be a reason behind it?
@ellie96 I was going to text him saying basically I have only been trying to be friends with him, which is what he wanted originally, but I don’t want to be the only one trying for it. But you think I should just not say anything? I don’t think he will feel like shit at all. I think he wants to hurt me!@Annakis @pineappleblue @Malinda
I’ve messed up big time 🙁 🙁 I’m so angry at myself!!I have been having the worst day. Emailed my ex, after talking myself out of it a million times. This is how the convo went (cringe)
Me: Hey. How are you? x
Him: Hi, I’m fine thanks. How are you getting on?
Me: Yeah I’m ok thanks. Do you fancy meeting up for a quick catch up soon? x
Him: Not really fancying it :p x
Me: No harm in quick coffee and a chat? x
Him: This could turn into an argument 🙂 x
Me: Oh, why? :/ sorry, I wasn’t starting an argument at all x
Him: I just don’t want to, that’s all. Nothing against you lol. I just, don’t want toAWFULLLLLL conversation. I didn’t reply to his last message. And he emailed me again saying “You’ve been ok tho yeh?”
Guys I know I messed up. I shouldn’t have emailed him let alone asked to see him! It’s been two months this weekend and I didn’t think I would be in this situation still. Harsh that he said he just doesn’t want to… do you think that’s what it is?
I’ve messed up big time 🙁 🙁 I’m so angry at myself!!
I have been having the worst day. Emailed my ex, after talking myself out of it a million times. This is how the convo went (cringe)
Me: Hey. How are you? x
Him: Hi, I’m fine thanks. How are you getting on?
Me: Yeah I’m ok thanks. Do you fancy meeting up for a quick catch up soon? x
Him: Not really fancying it :p x
Me: No harm in quick coffee and a chat? x
Him: This could turn into an argument 🙂 x
Me: Oh, why? :/ sorry, I wasn’t starting an argument at all x
Him: I just don’t want to, that’s all. Nothing against you lol. I just, don’t want toAWFULLLLLL conversation. I didn’t reply to his last message. And he emailed me again saying “You’ve been ok tho yeh?”
Guys I know I messed up. I shouldn’t have emailed him let alone asked to see him! It’s been two months this weekend and I didn’t think I would be in this situation still. Harsh that he said he just doesn’t want to… do you think that’s what it is?
