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April 22, 2015 at 11:43 am #42715
KD1988
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Guys I know, I shouldn’t have done it. I was doing well not talking to him. I dunno what happened. Well according to him he just doesn’t want to @mj doesnt seem to be a reason behind it?

@ellie96 I was going to text him saying basically I have only been trying to be friends with him, which is what he wanted originally, but I don’t want to be the only one trying for it. But you think I should just not say anything? I don’t think he will feel like shit at all. I think he wants to hurt me!
April 22, 2015 at 11:45 am #42716
ellie96
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@KD He will in the future, trust me. Just do not text him. It will cause an argument or him feeling like a winner. Just don’t talk to him. I’m sorry, but that was SO wrong of him..
April 22, 2015 at 11:51 am #42719
KD1988
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Maybe he will but I highly doubt he will. His plan seems to be “let’s hurt her as much as I can so she stops loving me and moves on”.
I won’t text him. Chances are I will see him out in a few weeks as im out the night his birthday is. I will ignore.
April 22, 2015 at 11:55 am #42721
ellie96
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Oh yeah, that is his part og his plan. Making you hurt, but not to move on. He will regret it once he realizes that you don’t care. Seriously, it is just an ego boost. You know why? Because if he really doesn’t want to have contact with you, he would not have responded at all. The whole point is, he did.
April 22, 2015 at 12:00 pm #42722
KD1988
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But I dunno why he wants to hurt me! I’ve done nothing to him. I’m so shocked by his behaviour I really am. I am actually thinking of blocking him so he can’t contact me (not that he will) but just in case he does
April 22, 2015 at 12:13 pm #42723
ellie96
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I mean if I were you, I might just do that. At this point, you don’t need to know whether he contacts you or not. Because if he does or he doesn’t, and you know, it will kill you more than not knowing.
April 22, 2015 at 12:14 pm #42724
KD1988
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Exactly. If he contacts me I will find it hard not to reply. If he doesn’t that will kill me too. I seriously am done now. I have nothing more to give to someone who quite clearly doesn’t want me to!
April 22, 2015 at 12:16 pm #42725
ellie96
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Just block him. That is your best option. I’m sorry it had to happen 🙁
April 22, 2015 at 12:20 pm #42726
KD1988
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My own fault, I shouldn’t have emailed him
April 22, 2015 at 12:21 pm #42727
ellie96
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No, this is NOT your fault. You did NOTHING wrong. It is his fault. His arrogance and ego got in the way of something great and he will regret it.
April 22, 2015 at 12:24 pm #42728
KD1988
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I highly doubt that lol.
April 22, 2015 at 12:53 pm #42731
Mj
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yeah sounds like he is forcing you to give up
April 22, 2015 at 2:14 pm #42735
KD1988
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Yep he is. He wants me to.
April 22, 2015 at 2:45 pm #42738
ellie96
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You aren’t giving up, you’re moving on!
April 22, 2015 at 2:54 pm #42740
KD1988
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Haha same difference :p
Whatever he wants me to do he has won. Coz I can’t take that, and can’t handle it either. There’s no need for him to be purposely trying to hurt me, whatever the reason behind it may be.
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