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So that’s me landed in Dubai, time will tell if she now starts moving away that she doesn’t have to worry about me being in the country anymore.
Feeling all over the place emotionally today, turn my phone on to have a few messages saying I think you have done the right thing for you, safe flight etc
Honestly this is all great and after having nothing it’s hard not to want to take every opportunity to be available.
But mate you need to make plans apart from her, tell her your to busy one night. If she is needing support because her dad is sick, sounds like she has come to the place where it’s easy to get it.
You need to not be so available to her. Let it all be slow, you have gone from nothing to seeing each tight loads.
What was the book again.
Was going to check this Corey Wayne guys book out.
I feel like I am trying to hard, reality is I should walk away but for some reason I can’t.
Yeh been forced in to relocating. From qatar to Dubai.
Maybe the distance and fact I am not around may have more of a desired effect.
I thought I wouldn’t message today to see if she messages saying how her night was.
Heard nothing at all it’s 8pm now.
Problem is I leave the Country Tuesday and she is in the UK.
It always seems to be me that gets the messages going.
I don’t know if I just need to leave it for now. Or build in her being tipsy and playful
Seems friendzoned to me
Hi mate,
There is no expected Skype.
I was going to suggest it maybe.
In all honesty I am fucked I have no control over this situation or my self. I am annoying people by not even going round circles but remaining stagnant.
I am so scared now to let her go I am completely blinded by her controlling behaviour
Problem is mate she is away, by the time she gets back if all goes well I will be moving country. This girl seems to be a hell of s lot different to the usual girls I have seen.
I am not going to message today and see is she remembers about me leaving and if she contacts me about the news I was supposed to receive today.
So meeting isn’t an option.
I was going to maybe say why don’t we Skype one day this week for a catch up.
What about that?
You can’t tell when she loses control of the messages because she does the same thing every time to get control back.
I made it clear after I stayed last week I don’t want goodbye I want to try this again in the future
Mine is a bit of a weird one at the moment.
After staying last week and her refusing to say good bye saying she doesn’t believe we won’t see each other again.
She has messaged me pretty much all week, granted most of the time it’s been me initiating it. However she called me, been asking how I am etc. then she goes cold ignores me for a good few hours.
Last night I could sleep and she was away at a hen party. She contacted me during one of the activities they where doing to tell me about it. We chatted back and forth. They was stuck in line to get in a club, so she was messaging me. I know how she hates to wait for things, so I was winding her up. Then I said random question what are you wearing, she said one of your favourite dresses. I guessed pretty much straight away.
Do I said well good work!
I then said I will leave you to your night, to which she said no it’s ok we are waiting to go in anyway.
So more chat back and forth, I said try to be a bit more approachable with people tonight. Inside joke she is really hard to chat up. Then she said it’s mostly hen parties where they are and she wouldn’t get anyone coming up to her anyway.
I am messaging saying sucks to be you, she left it with oh shhhh.
So yeh God knows
Mine is a bit of a weird one at the moment.
After staying last week and her refusing to say good bye saying she doesn’t believe we won’t see each other again.
She has messaged me pretty much all week, granted most of the time it’s been me initiating it. However she called me, been asking how I am etc. then she goes cold ignores me for a good few hours.
Last night I could sleep and she was away at a hen party. She contacted me during one of the activities they where doing to tell me about it. We chatted back and forth. They was stuck in line to get in a club, so she was messaging me. I know how she hates to wait for things, so I was winding her up. Then I said random question what are you wearing, she said one of your favourite dresses. I guessed pretty much straight away.
Do I said well good work!
I then said I will leave you to your night, to which she said no it’s ok we are waiting to go in anyway.
So more chat back and forth, I said try to be a bit more approachable with people tonight. Inside joke she is really hard to chat up. Then she said it’s mostly hen parties where they are and she wouldn’t get anyone coming up to her anyway.
I am messaging saying sucks to be you, she left it with oh shhhh.
So yeh God knows
Mate that is amazing news, see what I meant before about sometimes you just need to think fuck it
Mate don’t, she said she wanted to be there for you and she hasn’t bothered with you on holidays.
Leave her get home in pack settle back in to daily life.
Do not message her.
