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stfu im tired of my email being spammed up cuz this shit
i was once on here upset and bitching like the rest of you
i moved on and so did life
i think if your dating someone else it might be time to move on, been this long she aint come back and you said your doing great so …………
so your dating someone new but still focusing on your ex? doesn’t sound fair to this new girl. Also sounds like you “happiness” may be clouded. If your dating someone new and your genuinely happy then you wouldn’t be worried about your ex at all
i will still try to help you but you need to forget about him right now
lets see, do you work? have a job?
hearbroken80
i have decided to move on. If she hurt me once and gave up when times got rough she will do it again. I can’t handle that. Maybe a cordial friendship, nothing more, down the road, but for now i am done
Absolutely, i am keeping my fingers cross that in 4 weeks you get a happy ending to your story!
ok, at 30 days i think you should be ready. Tough it out for 2 more weeks man. Let me know how it goes! Try not to run into in the next 2 weeks so when you contact her its more of a surprise. Remember, just want her as a friend back for now. Seems like you got this
LA
my relationship was in a tough stage and i knew it was going to get even tougher with work and college, i thought about initiated a break for us both to get our personal lives together so when she asked for the break i was fine, i honestly expected it. When she told me to move on and that i deserved better, i did nothing wrong and she was incredibly happy to afew days later she didn’t love me, she wasn’t happy so she chose to leave me so shes not holding herself back from finding it. Thats what fucked with my head. In other words times got hard outside of our relationship so a break wouldve been fine. But it seems she just all of a sudden gave up. Then of course i was needy when she said the hurtful things so i think my story is a lost cause at this point. Only be 11 days but my gut feeling is too much damage to repair
i really don’t think it matters whether she does the first contact or if you do it, just as long as your composed
hypothetical situation
you contact her and she says “i love you but i am seeing someone, and i just don’t see how we could ever work”
how do you respond? (trying to see if your ready like you say)
depends on your definition of success, about relationships i as well would like to hear some, but as for people picking up the pieces and moving on after they realize it wasn’t meant to be…….. here’s a great one by a guy on here (L.A. middle of page)
my girl deleted me off fb before we broke up, says she didn’t know she did, she then DELETED her account. And if it helps as far as the nc is going your doing better. While i am not actually contact her i drive by her place sometimes and its such a self-inflicted hurtful (and stupid with gas prices) thing to do.
you really are looking into it too much 🙂 lol
go to work, do no contact and be strong! let us know if we can help along the way
how long have you done nc?
like i just told someone else on here somewhere
right now (even tho its impossible) dont think about anything related to your ex, I personally asked my boss for more hours, and stay behind in class for unnecessary tutoring. Point is, FOCUS ON YOU for now. After about 30, 60, 90, shit whatever it takes, we all heal differently, let us know your ready to make contact and we will all help you 🙂 we are all here for each other.
keep me updated if you want and good luck. If you need to know anything else from a guys perspective i am always here
