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It’s been 5 days almost a week no contact today I got the urge to check her Instagram and twitter but I didn’t I fought the urge..it’s crazy how ur instincts try and take over and tell u what’s best for u when your brain knows other wise.anywAy I’m jus thinking about her wondering how she is while excluding the fact in my mind that she has a boyfriend. I wonder if she’s thinking.and my question is it bad that I blocked her and should I unblock her?
It is up to you whether to unblock or keep her blocked. Blocking her means that are less lines of communications open. There’s really nothing you can do about her current bf, try to focus on yourself and not think about what she’s doing.
School starts next Monday and me any my ex will be attending the same Skool like I said before. My only concern is I kno my heart will be racing a 100mph when I see her but I’m still gonna follow the NC rule set for me. How ever what if she tried to talk to me and I find out that her and her new BF have been having sex.how am I suppose to feel knowing how I feel about her still.
im not acting like that but yo have to realize things you do and say push me away even further and yesterday that all started over nothing, im not obligated to tell you anything. This is what my ex emailed me when I said something that was out of line about her and her new relationship wit her BF..what exactly does this mean I would jus like someone else’s point if view.because she made it official wit him a week ago but after she told me she wanted her space and stop talking she met him the next day and started getting serious wit him right off the back and then 3 weeks later they are in a relationship.WHAT DOES THIS ALL MEAN?
Things tend to move faster in a rebound relationship and she has probably started a rebound.Don’t concentrate on her life.Focus on yourself and don’t overanalyze her words.You should follow your plan.
What are the chances of my ex in her rebound relationship having sex with her new BF????
No one knows and you don’t have to concentrate on it.You should focus on yourself and your life.
I know it’s crazy but I really miss her a lot.im good as far as poppin up at her house and I’m able to focus and work out and do me.but I jus realize I do alot
Chances are high that she will have sex with her new partner. But be honest with yourself, if you could have sex with a new super model every night till you two got back together you would. So don’t hate on her for doing what you would do in a heart beat. Honestly, one sexual partner is one to many, so don’t worry about that stuff. Work on making yourself awesome.
Ok so school starts Monday and I believe that this system of no contact will work for me..my thing is what if she really tries to speak to me? And even tho she has a bf do u think she will still be thinking about talking to me.i understand this is college and all but these are jus my thoughts.im excited to maybe even see her Monday but knowing that I mustn’t speak to her is t my issue.my issue is what if her seeing me around makes her want to come up and try n talk to me?
Make sure you keep your cool here man. You need to show her that you are fine and that you are moving forward. Be assured, she is thinking about you. You should avoid contact if you can, but if you do end up in a situation where you need to interact with her, keep it very light and don’t think much of it. You need to display a bit of coldness here so she understands the distance you are putting between you guys. Relationship Rewind really helped me understand where I am in the whole thing, not that I mean to pitch a book at you here, but it is really good. I am currently about 2 weeks into the no contact and still feel the pain every day, but I know that if I don’t focus on myself then I will never get her back. I pushed this girl right into the arms of another guy. Was really messed up the way it played out. It is starting to get a bit easier, and after this no contact month I will decide if I am going to re-connect and try and get her back. I feel that I will try it, but the only chance I have is to suffer through the no contact first, so you need to keep it together man. I hear ya, and feel that pain.
We’ll I wrote her a short letter and dropped it off at the post office..I kept it short and simple and didn’t give to much intel about me at all..I jus kno it’s gone make me feel some type of way seeing her get picked up from school and seeing her get in the car and kiss her new bf..it jus seems like to me like she using him I’m not sure tho
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