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Danmurphy919
I would say
i understand and i respect the fact that you are seeing someone and I’m not trying to get in the middle of you and your newly found love. I will continue to give u your space and I appreciate you being honest with me. Have a good day Jenae.
That’s how I would respond to that hypothetical situation/question Danmurphy919
ok, at 30 days i think you should be ready. Tough it out for 2 more weeks man. Let me know how it goes! Try not to run into in the next 2 weeks so when you contact her its more of a surprise. Remember, just want her as a friend back for now. Seems like you got this
Danmurphy919
Thanks for the advice and tael I might even go 45 days jus to be sure but I will definately be strong about.. You’ve been a great help and I appreciate you. I’ll get back to you soon. Take care
Absolutely, i am keeping my fingers cross that in 4 weeks you get a happy ending to your story!
I feel very confident about my feelings towards my ex and I am ok with the fact that she is in a new relationship. I thought about jus sending her a goodnight message but I wanted some feedback before I did.i am currently in NC with her but I feel better about the whole situation. I kno that there is even more room for improvement becuz it’s endless.im not getting an urge to text her I jus thought that maybe I would send her a text saying hey I jus wanted to say goodnight and maybe a kiss emoticon? Jk about the emoticon maybe jus a goodnight message? It is day 19 of no contact for me and I feel great tbh not jus now. My overalls feeling as a whole
I feel very confident about my feelings towards my ex and I am ok with the fact that she is in a new relationship. I thought about jus sending her a goodnight message but I wanted some feedback before I did.i am currently in NC with her but I feel better about the whole situation. I kno that there is even more room for improvement becuz it’s endless.im not getting an urge to text her I jus thought that maybe I would send her a text saying hey I jus wanted to say goodnight and maybe a kiss emoticon? Jk about the emoticon maybe jus a goodnight message? It is 20 days of no contact for me and I feel great tbh not jus now. My overalls feeling as a whole
Hey so I jus saw my ex walk past me we’ll I had my head down reading and when I looked up she walking wit one of her male friends so to speak. And when I looked up she was like giggling wit a slight smerk and gave me the ole wave and continued walking. I felt an extreme rush but then I felt like she felt awkward seeing me right there. It’s been 23 days no contact almost 30 days and I feel confident about my feelings towards her I do. How do I break the awkwardness between me and her?and I most definately feel like I’m ready to maybe send her an email or a text. Should I? Pmease responds I need some advice
Hey,
Text her with one of the text versions after NC.You can find the examples in Relationship Rewind.
Don’t text her good night or anything like that.Your reading Relationship rewind it’ll explain what exactly you need to do.WELL IM DATING SOMEONE AND IM HAPPY. DO YOU THINK I WILL HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO TEXT HER IF SHE DOESNT TEXT ME FIRST. My NC DEADLINE IS WEDNESDAY AND I STILL HAVENT CALLED OR TEXT HER IN ALMOST 30 days.WHAT SHOULD I SAY WHEN I FIRST TEXT OR CALL HER? SHOULD I TEXT HER OR CALL HER? AND BY THE WAY WE DO GO TO THE SAME COLLEGE AND WOULD IT BE BETTER IF I JUS ASKED HER TO MEET ME SOMEWHERE ON CAMPUS IT SOMTHEING?
so your dating someone new but still focusing on your ex? doesn’t sound fair to this new girl. Also sounds like you “happiness” may be clouded. If your dating someone new and your genuinely happy then you wouldn’t be worried about your ex at all
Its really up to you whether to contact her first or not.
And again,its up to you if you want to call her or text her.
I recommend you to text her (if you decide to be the one who initiates contact).Read the article there is a section about text messages.
When both of you feel comfortable texting each other,you can ask her out or ask her to meet you somewhere.Ok so yesterday I met up with her and we talked for a good 15-20 minutes..she started pointing out a few flaws and I jus told her I’m not here for that I’m here to jus hold a conversation with u and see how u been…she did tell me her bf was picking her up from school today but I was still appreciative of the time she gave me. She said that she didn’t kno about us caution talking since she’s in a relationship becuz she don’t want him to to think that we tryna get back together and I actually met the guy he’s really a sensitive dude and he’s very insecure about what she may be doing..he’s constantly pickin her up from Skool dropping her off and it jus seems like the guy whole life is her. For some odd reason when I did talk to him he told me he had been n a situation similar to me and my ex and his old gf cheated on him wit her ex and they got back together..and he doesn’t want that to happen again.. It feels like she’s tryna prove to him that she’s not gonna go back to me and that he had nothing to worry about but deep down I feel that he’s very insecure..but to get back on point me and my ex talked and it actually had a few cheap laughs in there and a few smiles and we ended the convo on a good note a complemented her and I could see her smiling but at the same time putting her defense up against me so she wouldn’t feel some type of way and I jus was very cool about the whole thing tbh…please comment and give me some pointers and advice..I want to kno if I’m in the right direction
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