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she might be doing it just to hurt you. kids can be mean, hope you dont take offence to that.
your predicament is tough, as younger relationships are often a lot less rational. if you cant stand being around her, dont be. youll just do yourself harm. but if you can, hang out with her group just dont pay her anymore attention than anyone else. she has to miss the special attention you give her.
i honestly dont know what to think of that. ive never had an experience like that but ive had odd coincidences that i could understand why they thought ‘god’ or what not was contacting them. who knows.
its hard to deal with that since its not exactly a rational decision.
I think he still wants you, but you need to be mature.I dont think you should look after him like a mum. unless hed do the same thing for you? or makes up for it in some other way?
you really are only hurting yourself man. you are far too invested in her still. you need to step back and really give you and her space
i think you still have a chance. just do no contact and be the person he wants to be with
he might not share everything with you. at least not for a while! you have to let things happen.
i dunno if you should say that you hope shes well. it might be a little too clingy?
just my opinion.i agree with vanessa. sounds like she loves you. she just wants more from you. you have to be the man she wants to be. get your life sorted. if you dont have a job, get one. then you can start figuring out what you want to do for a career. If you dont have a car, or licence, get them. Dont rub these things in her face though, she wants you to grow up and be a mature adult! hope this isnt harsh. it would just make her feel more attracted to you, youll feel better yourself.
just dont tell her youre doing it for her. put yourself first. you are doing these things for you. because you are a strong person and she would be very lucky to be a part of your life!
if youre the better person and thats all she cares about, she’ll come back to you. but if she cares about the relationship her child has with her farther, it will be harder! if shes a smart women, she’ll come back!
things can change! you need him to be attracted to you again. doesnt mean its true forever, he could (as he has before) fall for you!
please read mind and let me know what you think!
https://ebpforums.com/boards/topic/confused-about-my-situation/
if you tell her, youll just push her away further. she has to find out for herself.
