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I sent her a message on Facebook and asked if we could talk today.. She’s been active on Facebook but she isn’t responding me.. This is her way of moving on, I’m pretty sure she has told her parents too.. And the whole Facebook relationship doesn’t mean shit, because she’ll probably remove it soon now.. What can I do?… I’m honestly so scared, I’ve lost her.. What if there is some other guy involved in the picture? This NC didn’t help at all, it drove her further away!! Help me please everyone, this is so confusing..
no contact is mainly for you. the article actual says 30 days no contact and no stalking. but this is where your hurting your self with the stalking. and if she is with someone else it’ll be her rebound. you need to calm down. see if she reply’s later. when we freak out we tend to not make rational decisions.
If another guy is involved then it will be a rebound and it wont mean anything to her!! It still hurts just as bad but you cant get mad at her if another guy is involved but if that is the case, you need to find out whether or not you’ve actually broken up. There’s no doubt she’s missing you but maybe she really needs more time to heal.
I’m not going to call her.. Why should I? I told her on facebook “can we talk today?” she has seen the message but isn’t answering.. Why is doing this?
Umm… She has liked something on facebook that shows a girl how to move on with a break up and how that bitch blogger is happy with another guy… And that everything will be alright.. AND SHE LIKED THAT ON FACEBOOK.. WHAT DO I DO?!
ignore it and keep no contact and stop hurting yourself by stalking her. I was just gonna ask you how are you doing and how is everything?
you really are only hurting yourself man. you are far too invested in her still. you need to step back and really give you and her space
Stop stalking her Facebook. Maybe even delete her if you can’t help yourself.
This is your time too, work on yourself.
Clear, you sound really unbalanced and whatever you do right now is going to look needy and desperate. You best plan is to just stay quiet for a while, it is really hard I know, but sometimes silence speaks volumes. Do NC for 30 days and then you can decide what you want to do if anything.
I wrote a letter to my ex that sounded needy and phatetic and after I just wanted to take all back, and wanted to send an additional text and tell him that I was moving on etc, just like what you are describing. My friend luckily told me not to do anything and to just stay quiet for a while. I did 30 days and at the end of those 30 days I was glad I did not say anything else.
You really just need to start working on yourself for now. Work out, eat good food, stop looking at her social media for hidden messages! lol read, sleep, spend time with good friends all that stuff helps.
Just follow the plan, it will be okay 🙂
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