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go ahead and talk to your mutual friend. just be careful what you say to her as you already know its gonna be forward to her whatever you say. good luck and keep us posted. 🙂
We talked a bit yesterday, apparently she’s almost back with her ex. They broke up like 4-6 months ago not sure, so I’m kind of trying to see how she is doing first, then ask her about my gf and how she is doing and if she has heard anything new. She asked me what I had been doing lately, and I said that I’ve been working out and talking to old friends and sending in job applicants, which is true.
Our mutual friend is now on my top list on snapchat, my girlfriend will probably get pissed… I want to talk to my girlfriend today, but I don’t want to complicate things..
I’m thinking about calling her either tomorrow or on wednesday.. I know that I have to fight for her to win her back though..nice, so your mutual friend must understand what your going through as well. I wish your mutual friend the best. yeah it’d be weird if you just asked her from start about your gf. but thats good because that way she hears good things about you. oh lol maybe it will make her mad, oh well, lol yeah call her when you feel ready and when you get the info you need to know. and yes fight like you never fought before for her and when you do get her back remember the pain you went through now so you can have a reflection of what i’d feel like to loser her again so you wont find yourself in this same predicament again. also always be kind and romantic with her and from time to time do things out of the blue, just for no reason. you got this and you will get her back, remember time,space and patience are the key. keep us posted. 🙂
WHAT THE FUCK. Our mutual friend isn’t talking to my girlfriend anymore.. OMG!…
And she’s on my toplist. I f*cked up..wow! thats crazy. first of all calm down. second of all take her off. third of all see if you could call your gf later on. and talk to her.
Okay, so I’ve thought about it for a while and do you guys think I should give her as much time as she needs? Until she contacts me?
I want to show her that I care etc, but I don’t want to be needy.. Should I just wait for her?No contact is scary because everyone thinks she’ll forget about them, but really it doesn’t it just makes her think of you more!
No contact has been for almost 6 days now.. I kind of agree with matthewlstewart! I’m actually starting to do good for myself.. Our mutual friend got with her ex after almost 6 months apart.. I’m sure true love leads to the right path! And honestly I think I’ll give it at least some more time.. What do you think @aamls and @cassie?
then yes I agree, keep working on yourself, and continue no contact, you got this. 🙂
Okay I’m just frustrating myself lmfao. I’m going to talk with her in two-three days! Wish me good luck hah!
haha i’m so confused about what to tell you. On one hand, i think its good that you make contact on wednesday, on the other i feel like you should let her come to you. Especially if you’re feeling good about yourself 🙂 If you feel good about yourself at the moment, then wait a bit longer to contact her. There are many ways to fight for her 🙂
first of all calm down. second of all you should do the music thing you told me about to be able to calm down. remember when we panic we dont think well. just calm down and relax for now, breath in and out.
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