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  • #13607
    Mj321
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    Well i am supposed to bring my son out. But my ex sent me another text because i didn’t respond and said that he was going to get the rest of his stuff. It was one hour and twenty minutes since his first text. He would usually ignore me all day. I told him that i was busy and i wouldn’t be manipulated because i didn’t respond fast enough. And that i wouldn’t be home at 12. He then asked if i could leave his boots outside the door.

    #13610
    Mj321
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    This is what i wrote: “Hey i was busy. I am home now. I didn’t tell you that you had to get your stuff. I’m not going to be manipulated because i didn’t respond right away. I am leaving by 1120”

    #13616
    N
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    Did he respond?

    #13617
    Mj321
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    Yes. He told me to put his boots outside the door because he needs them for school. Was i wrong?

    #13621
    N
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    Well, the manipulated part was a little wrong because it shows that you were mad for him saying that he was getting his stuff back, try to be so short in a text message without showing any emotions what so ever.

    #13622
    N
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    Don’t let your emotions get to you

    #13625
    Mj321
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    I feel bad now. I hope i didn’t mess up my chances. I listened to my older brothers advice. (Partially)

    #13626
    Mj321
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    And i was upset about it. I wasn’t expecting that.

    #13629
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    you didn’t mess up your chances don’t worry, i know now you are thinking of bettering the situation by contacting him, but don’t if he contacts you again about that matter don’t respond.

    #13633
    Mj321
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    🙁 ok i hope so. Omw out the door. So i don’t run into him.

    #13635
    N
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    have fun on your day and try to get busy as much as you can

    #13636
    Mj321
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    Thanks you too!

    #13684
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    Im out having dinner with a friend and still thinking of sending him text telling him how much i miss him, if i get through this day i will be really proud of my self ;(

    #13687
    Mj321
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    I am feeling the same. I had lunch with my son and i almost cried. I want to call him and then him sorry for being mean earlier.WE will get through today we have to. So we can be proud of ourselves and each other

    #13688
    Mj321
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    Tell* him sorry

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