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  • #13523
    Mj321
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    I don’t think he told her. Because i saw her earlier and she saw me cry. But she has called me before after he spoke with her. So idk. I didn’t think about that. She said that i sounded much better and asked what i was doing. So that’s a great thing.

    #13525
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    it is a great thing!

    #13527
    Mj321
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    I don’t have friends where i live. So this makes it hard and going to his mom’s house tempting. If i take my son to the park that can only last for but so long. I want to get out of the house for the whole entire day.

    #13529
    Mj321
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    I really appreciate our conversation. It has made my evening positive and go by faster. Thank you. I didn’t think anyone was going to reply.

    #13530
    N
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    Anytime, don’t worry we all go through these stuff in our lives and we have to stick with each other to get through, if you have any hobbies try to practice them more, go to the library and read books, or go to the cinema and watch a movie (not a romance pls ;p), watch some series, join cooking classes or music classes.

    #13531
    Mj321
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    What are your plans for tomorrow?

    #13532
    N
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    Well i am a horse back rider so i have a lesson tomorrow for show jumping, i recently joined a gym and piano classes, i need to keep myself busy so that i don’t lose my mind 2 days seems like 2 years literary and if i continue on not doing anything i will end up contacting him

    #13537
    Mj321
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    That’s great! I need to join something. I’m sure you’ll think about him. But it will help pass the time and you’re bettering yourself in the process. I actually didn’t think about calling him. I just thought about him. I have to find something fast! next week i’m off for 4 days out of a 6 day week.

    #13547
    Mj321
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    I hope to hear from you again tomorrow! Have a great a restful nights sleep!

    #13576
    Mj321
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    Good morning @N He contacted me!!!! 😮 asked if I’d be home around 12. I’m not going to reply and I’m going to make sure I’m not home. I feel a bit bad because he starts school tonight. How is your morning?

    #13577
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    Goodmorning!! thats great news!! its working see??! yes make sure that you stay busy today and don’t feel bad because everything will be in your advantage in the end, i think today I’m having a break down a little, i want to contact him so bad

    #13578
    Mj321
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    Noo breakdowns! What time do your lessons start? Lets both get out of the house and stay busy. Before i got his text. I was just telling myself today was going to be a great day. Everytime a negative thought comes cancel it by saying something positive immediately.

    #13579
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    My lesson is in three hours, yes i have to think positive but I’m starting to think what if he feels better now without me, and what if he’s ok now with the break up

    #13580
    Mj321
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    I know it’s very hard. And those thoughts come into my head as well. But you have to push. It’s been 3 days. No way has his feelings changed!

    #13581
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    Yes i guess so, so tell me what are your plans for today??

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