Boards No Contact Rule need advice please

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  • #13699
    Mj321
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    So I’m back home and he hasn’t come to get his boots! They’re still outside my door. What am i supposed to do?

    #13703
    N
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    take them inside but don’t contact him, wait until he contacts you back

    #13705
    Mj321
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    But once he comes for them I’ll be home and I’ll have to see him. Isn’t that breaking Nc? How do i act when he comes?

    #13712
    N
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    Try to act normal and be a positive person let him see the girl he first fell inlove with the one who was full of life

    #13716
    Mj321
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    I’m so nervous. I didn’t think i was going to see him so soon! How are you feeling now? What did you do so far today?

    #13718
    Mj321
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    He just left. I was normal. He. Hugged and kissed our son and then grabbed me and gave me a hug. I told him to have a great day at school. He said thank you and left. I miss him so much! !

    #13719
    Mj321
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    I want him to want me back. I’m so nervous

    #13721
    N
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    I know how you feel, and i know that you want him to want you back, but just keep in mind contacting him will not help, coming back has to come from him not you, it’s just a matter of time when he realizes that he misses you and wants to be with you, don’t worry he will come back I’m sure of it, but he has to miss you first, stay strong, and keep in mind if you broke the NC plan i will break it with you ;p

    #13722
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    My day was not that good, today i was more sad than yesterday i don’t know why maybe because i was expecting him to contact me or i am missing him more and more every day and I’m getting frustrated, but if one think i should learn is that if i contact him he won’t come back, he has to realize on his own that he misses me, and giving him space will help

    #13724
    Mj321
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    Lol i won’t. I just wish i knew what was going on in his mind. Btw he didn’t call and say he was on his way. He just rang my door bell. I wish i would’ve looked nicer lol i have on pjs I’m cooking dinner

    #13725
    Mj321
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    I’m sorry that you didn’t have the best day. It’s really hard. I know. Hopefully by the weekend he will contact you.

    #13726
    N
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    I really hope so, its so weird being really mad at him but at the same time want him so bad, its confusing sometimes i think that i should be the one who refuses to talk to him, why am i doing that, but its frustrating how you love someone no matter what they do to you, it never goes away.

    #13727
    Mj321
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    Actually I’m sure he’ll contact you soon.

    #13728
    N
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    Thank you for making me strong really, honestly if it wasn’t for you i think i would be flying to him right now

    #13729
    Mj321
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    Trust me i know. In spite of everything and all of my emotions i still love him. And not that it’s ok that either one of us did things that wasn’t nice. I’m just so in love with him that I’m willing to look past it. Love, true love is something!!

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