Is it over?? Please Help

What’s up Joe. Its late and I apologize if I babble here but that’s normal to drive past. But don’t do it anymore.

Because believe me you don’t want her to catch you! She knows what your capable of because you surprised her before.

So don’t think she doesn’t have eyes in the back of her head when she comes home or leaves.

Paranoia would start to freak me out if her neighbors caught a “suspicious” car lurking from shadows and tell her. Because you never know and don’t be surprised how people (ex’s) will tell other neighbors even strangers on the street about a major break up.

I did the same with my ex 2 weeks before we officially broke up. We had a scuffle 2 weeks before and I came by her unannounced she was shocked. But we walked around sat and spoke and she was cool. And she admitted she liked it that I came like that but she remained stubborn wanting “space” for couple days to teach me a “lesson” then she was getting “hot” and she came by earlier than expected and everything was great between us

Sorry for detail but we had marathon intercourse like 4-5 times or a f*ckathon that day with that smaller “reconciliation” But then 2 weeks later we had a major argument when I caught her in a lie and next day we argued again over the phone. I was still stubborn about it the following night.

And that was that.

See we like to think in a way it’s being harmlessly romantic and that they’ll appreciate it inside of them seeing us unexpectedly and they will but you just never know in the fallout phase…

As she could be coming down settling from being mad and hurt OR her emotions could be rising hating you more… then turn that against YOU telling EVERYONE that she saw you!

And then it makes the situation more of a mess to clean up.

Important to note, is that during this fallout phase with doing NC, she is starting boil. Whether she’s simmering down and starting to miss you or holding firm keeping the grudge rising emotionally “hating” you with regret “baggage”

Chances are in my opinion like with my ex, she’s going to be very tempted to contact you. And impressed that she didn’t see you pop out of a bush respecting her space.

Your more than welcome 🙂 .hahaha no,i’m from California.

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I don’t think she saw you or else you would get an email or a private call as a warning like you said.

But it’s funny how that works both ways. If your ex is near your area or passes it, it’s a guarantee her alertness and curiosity is raised or the feeling of panic if you see her.

Back months ago in February (4months NC) my friend and I saw a suspicious looking car one night sitting across the street from me. My friend was pulling up in his car and I noticed it as I was walking out to greet him.

I kept looking at that car and saw the car turn its heads light on and start backing up slowly out of the view. I pointed it out to my friend and he was shocked too asking who is that?

And then the car started moving forward and drove out down the street. As the car passed under the corner street light we saw 2 women with long hair staring at us as they were driving away!! We didn’t get a point blank 100% confirmation but we were both certain it was her with probably one of her girlfriends passing by my house. They probably were in my area that night and thought to pass by and check it out.

My neighborhood is generally quiet and it was suspicious. Especially for it being in the middle of February.

My ex doesn’t drive or have her license. And the silhouette of the passenger looked exactly like her.

My gut instinct is usually right.

NOW months down when she called me drunk she said she made a friend with a female coworker who had a break up too. And she would constantly bring me up to her when they were talking about their backups. So they were nourishing each other. Going out after work etc.

So later on in our conversation she said she was in my town not long ago with family having lunch and admits she likes my area.

So I asked her if that was the only time she was ever in my area because I saw a suspicious car back in February one night lurking out of shadows by me and saw 2 woman in that car.

She giggled and laughed saying no it wasn’t her. But I know her by now it was a guilty giggle. She cracks up when she’s lying when she’s getting caught.