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  • in reply to: She said she see's me in her mind & dreams!?!? #47258
    nora
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    I agree with Kaila, she misses you might be sending some signs to see if you still have the same feeling .. she might waiting for you now to say something she said you on her mind, she even call your name :).. best of luck .. keep us updated

    in reply to: Haven\’t Heard Back After Meeting Ex After NC #46915
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    Yes hold yourself don’t do like me I ruin everything lol .. I keep saying stupid things or only be professional talking to him and sometimes i lose it so don’t do like me DONT TEXT till his birthday and he will reply and i think even you might be out and guess what you are ready now πŸ˜€ beautiful lady πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Is there anything I can do? #46891
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    GO ahead and contact her πŸ™‚ send her a letter prove you never cheated on her but dont expect reply move on and if she meant to be she will.. take it easy she is hurt

    in reply to: Haven\’t Heard Back After Meeting Ex After NC #46889
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    Well I am texting him on off i am stupid and no I didn’t apologise, after i decide enough i think his ego didnt accept it so the second day he siad ok lets be friends lol but then he texted me 3 days after to ask if am calmer but i replied 3 days after saying yes i am good but i kept acting as friends while he kept asking what have went wrong .. i didnt reply and when i finally open up and send him crossword search using the words love you cuddles , waterbed lol .. he even didn’t text back then i text him explain i dont want to reply about what happen in the past rather talk about future and he is special to my heart and thanked him for being in my life again i get no reply.. i left him 4 days then yesterday i text him happy fridays hope all good he said yes but been working all day. then same today morning .. he said the same but one of his fans emailed me and she is weirdo so i text him on skype since we back friends on it lol ..
    I don’t know no reply from his side since then.. i asked him if he can advice me on my PhD which he agree to discuss and he is the one who offered to talk on skype if i want to discuss it.. but again no reply he is all day praying lol.. I do love him a lot he is 51 next wednesday i am 35 but he is a special person and so do I, I don’t really need to be like the other women chasing him or anything like this he knows am very attractive woman so I don’t even need this. so I decide to let it go for now till am done with the PhD as he think I will finish in 2 yrs I told him no 6 month.. I believe I have strong connection with him we didn’t have real intimate relation but …. and I don’t think he do this with everyone on earth that’s why I feel so attached to him I never felt any connection with any man like this before. So I would send him happy Birthday sometimes I say no .. In your case I will say send him Girl πŸ™‚

    in reply to: I found my girls porn. I need advice. #46886
    nora
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    πŸ™‚ well I would say you can say anything you want in indirect way.. not directly.. this is her privacy so she will be really annoyed if she figure out this. Now you know everything and now you feel more comfy about it so why not to send her a picture kinky cuffs or indirect things and maybe when you both have good time you surprise her without hurting her feelings πŸ™‚ what you think

    in reply to: Haven\’t Heard Back After Meeting Ex After NC #46877
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    no no its a really nice message .. first of all you don’t need to expect he will answer straight away .. its like a plane , easy , nicely and believe it works then launch .. your message is very nice bringing nice memory but he doesnt have anything to say to it so he simply doesnt know what to reply.. next time maybe we change the tactic a little bit we ask him for help or something you need his opinion a real good question that he will answer no matter what.:)

    in reply to: Day 17 of No Contact #46770
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    Wow 19 days today for you and 3 for me πŸ™‚ .. yes sure we here to support each other

    in reply to: Day 17 of No Contact #46769
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    Thx dear :).. His birthday next wednesday πŸ™ i dont know if i should text him or just ignore.. if you can go to my page please and check mt post on just break up and give me your insight i will highly appreciate it because i need advice and its complicated

    in reply to: Haven\’t Heard Back After Meeting Ex After NC #46768
    nora
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    Im new too πŸ™‚ .. I know how you feel Im the same too and I would appreciate your insight too. you are confused because you don’t know whats happening on the other side mind .. thats normal ,, but you need to calm down you replied.. what exactly you text him.. i think he might need another text lets meet up or something less stronger than this to push the conversation maybe what you send doesnt need even a reply.. thats what am telling myself when i text my ex i still getting no reply its killing!! but its a mind game the moment you give up looking is good but the moment you give up on the whole situation you lose it so comfort yourself please you are not alone

    in reply to: Haven\’t Heard Back After Meeting Ex After NC #46686
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    no no thats really nice nothing is ruined please calm down.. all will be good . I think all went good you need to thank him for the nice time and you did enjoy it give it some time like a week or two and text him back .. DON’T PANIC all under control I think you are doing great darling πŸ™‚ .. he only thinking about everything and he might be a bit confused or rethinking about it all over again.. the idea he kissed you and hugged you means he is having still having feeling for you .. all will be good the moment you feel safe comfy and sure its really good.

    act as if nothing happened at all he will contact you , it might take time but he will πŸ™‚ trust me he will .. he still care about you if he doesn’t why did he text you or take you out .. you are a beautiful lucky lady and that’s how you should feel.I hope I helped a bit .. am here for you if you need me

    in reply to: Goodbye for now …. #46605
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    you are right Jas .. I totally supports you and thanks so much to you I think you did the right thing best of luck girl you are the best .. I think I reach to the same conclusion I am so happy I met you and thanks so much for reading and supporting me such a lot . xoxox

    in reply to: Day 17 of No Contact #46599
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    No I didn’t I initiate the breakup then the second day he break up with me i think just with the feeling its him not me lol.. then he blocked me from all communication and restricted me on facebook .. i lost it then by accident i realized he text me on Whatsup asking me if am calmer this was 3 days after the raw. I was supper happy and replied like a fool after 5 days from breakup .. and look now he is give me the cold shoulder after I open up .. I think we need to strictly apply NC no matter what .. .. I would appreciate your feedback .. thanks so much.

    Please stay strong all will be good. sure your ex cares about you but he only want to comfort himself. I think its only a mental game but really sucks!! because it hurts like hell but once we figure out how to play the game and know its only a matter of time we will feel much better.

    in reply to: Day 17 of No Contact #46542
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    he will give up soon .. keep your head up.. you are going well.. men acting strange sometimes, but he seems he still have feeling and suffering thats why he still posting things.. .. at least better than my ex how text and start conversation and when i start to be nice and open up and show my feelings he simply pulled back.

    in reply to: My NC: Struggles and Insights #46032
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    if you want her just do the same and give yourself a chance be in control and go and get her .. if there is still feeling why not to use this chance into your side.. however, if you decide to move on then be sure that you are about to meet a better person who meant to be in your life. .. Best of luck!

    in reply to: my no contact period.. #46031
    nora
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    Oh God I know what you feel.. please hang on there, don’t panic, at least God is showing you a bitter possibility in case it happen you are strong to handle, but I don’t think it will though, what comes fast goes fast you have things together, 10 yrs is not a joke is full of good and bad times so be strong everything will sure be ok, and in case it didn’t you are a strong woman and will manage.

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