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Thanks, I checked it out! It’s pretty helpful. Defiantly good combination with what we get here.
Guys I finally got the next email! Hope you guys got it too.
The email he sent me talked about your the way you smell and how that can impact your ex. It’s true when my ex and I broke up, we meet up not too long after I was wearing cologn and she hugged me and smelled me told me I smelled good. She opened up and told me she missed me. We ended up kissing for a while. So thanks Kevin for the emails again!
Dezzen,
I’ve never tried that rewind, do you recommended it? What can you tell me about it? What are some good tips you’ve got from it?
Eveyone,
Am I foolish to think that my ex has forgotten about me? We broke up 2 months ago and after that we talked for one month. So it’s officially been one month with no contact. She is talking to someone already and I feel like she’s moving on. It honestly doesn’t hurt me as much as it did at first. But just cerious if she forgot I exists or maybe doesn’t feel anything for me anymore…just a thought
I have blocked all social media all day and it’s going well. I’m always on my phone on these sites, it was hard at first but it’s doing me good. I feel great my confidence is coming back up I’m feeling great and it’s all becuase I’ve kept myself off of social media. There’s nothing I can do at the moment to stop my ex from seeing this other guy. So why hurt myself finding out everything that going on with them. I owe it to myself to make my self happy since no one else can. The day approaches when I deliver my letter. Getting ready for the day
Ruben,
I like your adittude. I’m in the same boat it was killing me at first but like you said. Use it to your advantage to become stronger and prepare yourself to move on. It’s her loss. I don’t know about your situation but I’m sure my ex is in a rebound situation. I’m getting more confident as the days pass recovering from all this drama. If this doesn’t workout I’ll be happy with someone else but unlike my ex I’ll wait for a little bit so that I know it’s not rebound and also Like how you said about just waiting till you’re ready to contact her. Whatever happens happens and move on. We can do this!
Good luck to you
Hey me too! Haha. I wonder if we enrolled around the same time or maybe it’s just the way it’s programmed or something. I enrolled about a month ago though
Yeah, I’ve made them my daily inspiration, when I don’t get them my day feels a little off haha.
I sure hope this isn’t the end of them thoughLoraina,
Thank you. And yes I there’s no other choice. It’s all I can do for the moment. Also I know what you mean when you hear or stumble on information about your ex. Feels like your hart drops. I was so frustrated when I bumped into my ex and saw some pictures. But ultimately we owe it to our selves to get right back up. I don’t know about you but I have a tendency to over think things and start making assumptions that may or may not be true. When this happens its bad for my mental health. It keeps me from being happy again. I hope you find the strength to get back up from all this.
Also feels good to know someone is going through something similar as me. We’re not alone haha. Wish you the best, we can do this!
Thank you az,
It all happened so fast. I’m stating of social media. I wasn’t stalking her but I stumbled on a picture her sister posted. But like I said I’m staying off that now. I know I have to be strong. I want to be able to tell her that if she decides to stay with this other person I’m ok with that and play it cool with out loosing it.
Thanks again
I’m going to wait till next week. I’m not emotionally stable at the moment to text her. After I will send the letter and I’ll text her. Then I’ll “bump” into her at the gym. This was my original plan and it’s better that I stick to it.
For the next few days I will prepare myself for both positive and negative outcomes.But i don’t like this suspense though. I don’t have the best patience in the world so this is killing me but I have to manage to get through it. Because at the moment there is nothing I can do but to get it together and help my self. I have to do this for the sake of my mental health.
Guys I need help again!
I was good, doing well my confidence was back up after my little encounter. But without me looking for it I keep seeing this guy my ex is with all the time. It’s torture. It’s killing me inside. I don’t want to care. But the fact that I’m ending NC soon is making me loose it. I was doing well and I don’t want to loose what I started on. But at the same time there is still a part of me that cares about her and old wounds are opening up. I’m sure he’s just a rebound but I can’t contain it. Just saw a picture my ex’s sister posted of this guy. Apparently she’s friends with him now. It’s making me wonder why he’s getting evolved with the family now. Please someone help me from going crazy. I’m not sure what to do. I want to text her but I don’t want to because if I do it’s going to be all needyness. I just want this out of my system.
I know what I have to do..get it together. Let all this bounce off me. I’m a confident person. I know I can do this.
The only thing that scares me is that she’s completely moved on. And is with this guy that she was talking to while we were still together. Honesty that’s what hurts me the most. I’m not sure if I should contact her tomorrow or next week. NC officially ends tomorrow but I ran into her and this guy 2 days ago and I was recommend to wait 1-2 weeks. I’m getting nervous that the more I wait the more shell get closer to this guy.
I know I have to stop thinking of this person. It’s bad for my mental health but when you stumble on these things it feels even worse.
Specially because I was just recovering from my last incident. The suspense of what she’ll say when I contact her is killing me. I’m getting the urge to skip the letter and just text her. I want all this to be over. I’m tired of going through this.
I was hanging out with my friends having a good time and I happen to get I. My phone and saw that. It ruined my whole night.
I plan on stay off of social media. I’m better off not knowing what’s happening
Sorry for rambling. I just found this out and it make me loose it again.
Please give feedback. When should I contact her. Tomorrow or next week? Should I still send the letter? I really want to text her. But maybe Im thinking this because I’m hurting right now
My last post made thing of something. You’re thoughts are welcome
Since i went NC with my ex. My ex before her has been texting me and snap chatting me a lot. She’s been a good friend through all this. I’ve been talking to her becuase I needed to get my mind off my current ex. My old ex told me She told me she still has feeling for me but isn’t seeking a relationship so in reality we are just friends. There’s nothing there. I don’t really feel for her what I felt with my current ex. However, like I said we have been in contact this whole time. She’s been snap chatting me a lot and I to her. If you know how that app works people can see your top people you snap chat and has them ranked. She’s my top person on the list and has been this whole month. My ex can see this and I know she’s seen it. Can this ruin my chances? Since she’s not just another girl but my ex before her.
Since, I’ve seen that my ex has this guy as her top friend too. I feel she’s just trying to get back at me and is therefore talking to this guy who she also has history with.
I just realized that this can turn into mind games and that’s not what I want her to think, well at least not with my old ex.
Also did catch her with the guy she’s talking to. She’s never seen me with my old ex. I’m honestly not freaking out about this but just cerious. Let me know your thoughts
Just wanted to write what was on my mind today:
Tomorrow marks 30 days since the last time my ex and I engaged in a full on conversation. I still remember the day, place, and time. The look on her face when I said goodbye. I told her to take care of herself and told her to close her eyes and I kissed her goodbye(an old trick of mine. She knows what it means) she smiled and blush, for a second I felt a little spark ignite between us. Unfortunately, I would have to let it die on it own. I had smothered her with needyness and she was annoyed with it. So It was very important for us to have have some time for ourselves. NC was the only thing that could ever restore our love or let me down easy.
Next week I will be sending my letter. Anxious to know what will happen but I’m ready for anything. Ready to make things work..as ready to let go and move on forever.Wish me luck
