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i know she is so busy tonight, it’s 12 am here but i don’t know is it possible she answers in the morning ?
I had a question about the first text after NC, I’m thinking of sending her ” hey!!! I just saw a romantic movie with a friend and the ending reminded me of you, it actually put a smile on my face”. I’m expecting 1) no answer 2) she would ask how it reminded me of her? so I’m thinking of just ending the conversation because I have a dinner meeting with friends and don’t tell her how it reminded me of her, what do u think ? or I should tell her how ?
he should really act as a mature and leave u alone for some time because that was my problem too, my ex always asked for some space but I never gave it to her and at the end she broke up with me. I wish I could tell him not to do the same mistake I did. good luck and If u think that’s the best for u go for it.
hey sunshinegirl
no don’t do it if u read my story u will know why, I went to her state last week without telling her, I went with flowers and I did drive for ten hours but she got angry at me and brought her friends to talk instead of her, almost a fight happened, all she was saying that how dare I go close to her home, I went close to her place to make it easier for her to meet up, I think I shouldn’t have done that because it made it worse, but for u it might be different because u know ur bf better than anyone else and u can expect his reaction.the long distance between me and my gf is my problem too, I know after the NC if I ask to see her she will refuse, I’ve been thinking of finding a way to see her again, I tried to get help from her friends but they’re horrible, that what makes it so hard for me too ):
the only thing i can use to show her i’m happy is snapchat, i’m showing that i’m having fun, going to the gym and living normal, anyone has any other ideas to show her how i am changing ? do u think me sending pics of me with other girl on snap chat is too much ?
yeh thanks alot a.z 🙂 I know u have been commenting for such a long time here, during this time have u noticed that the NC usually increase the chance to get together ? before breaking up my ex told me even if she thinks to get back to me it will be too late, I don’t know what she meant, but when I told her I’m going to Gold coast to study at her uni she said she will be doing a summer school there; then when I told her I will introduce myself to one of her friends at that uni she said that’s not a good idea because she wants it over and she doesn’t want connections between us. I honestly don’t know what she meant or how she thinks but today when I uploaded videos of my having fun with friends she checked them.
well done !!! i think ur doing really great just don’t show him u want to get back with him badly 🙂
Thanks alot I really appreciate ur comments, I don’t know why people who love with all their hearts should suffer while f*cking others have to play with us like that ):
I know u guys may think I’m crazy because I’m happy because she only saw my snap chat stories but I feel much stronger than last week, I feel I’m getting stronger and stronger to face her with confidence after NC.i admit I get weak some times of the day but I thank god I have people like you to support me.
after i thought she completely living her life without thinking of me, i found out she opens my snap chat stories and sees them, is this a good sign that she still cares ? i did put a pic of my tickets to lady gaga concert to show i’m living my life normally, should i continue doing this to show her i don’t care ???? will this help to make her forget the needy pic of me ?
I started the NC time few days ago and I feel so weak as all my friends left me alone dealing with this problem, I wish you all the best and I wish I could have your strength one day, you’re helping me alot with ur comments and I found the support that I could never have from my friends.
ok thanks alot, I’ll follow the plan but do u think she will act positively after I contact her ? because I’m sure all of her friends gave their opinions about me and that would affect her negatively.
