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I’m going a bit crazy today with racing thoughts. I miss him being here. Hopefully when I go to work, that will keep my mind occupied. Why am I SO irrational and insane when it comes to myself, but so level headed for everyone else? Ha.
All of us are irrational when it comes to ourselves.and its ok if you miss him.i still miss my ex after 6 months.so don’t worry about anything and don’t blame yourself for anything.just get yourself busy and try to have some fun.
he should really act as a mature and leave u alone for some time because that was my problem too, my ex always asked for some space but I never gave it to her and at the end she broke up with me. I wish I could tell him not to do the same mistake I did. good luck and If u think that’s the best for u go for it.
Quinn,
You story is very interesting. Its like you AR.E the lady that dumped me LOL. Her actions mirror what you have done. I am 5 days into NC and it is getting slightly easier each day but my nighst are hard. My ex is 52, I am 46, are you significantly younger than us? Does anyone think age matters much with afffairs of the heart? I think not. We love and get hurt at all ages.
She told me she is afaraid of hanging out as friends because we might “cross the line” and that she still has feelings for me. And I know I displayed anger and impatience and I am working on that in NC.
I understand now that giving her space for many weeks is a good way to respect her feelings, but why do I fear I am losing her forever by doing so? LOL
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