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  • August 4, 2014 at 6:53 am #1250
    a.z
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    Hey guys,

    Dara,
    Actually i’m good.when i think of those 5 months it really stresses me out and i really feel better without him in my life.there is no more mind games in my life and i don’t have to be worried about anything about him.

    Kevin,
    Thank you very much,yeah i know but i wish it never happens.i really don’t want to hear anything from him.

    FestivalDavid,

    Thank you david,yeah you are right ,we are in kind of a same situation.but your ex is really a better person than mine LOL. he was driving me crazy and the reason i tried to keep me away from him is that he is never constant.13 days ago he said he can’t handle being without me,and last night,he accepted everything as soon as i said.he kept saying i love you and he never wanted to get back with me.he really made me sick and i can’t handle anymore of that.
    Yeah, its really good that we can talk.

    Thank you again guys

    August 4, 2014 at 7:17 am #1253
    Robot 3
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    That’s cool! Anyway, you have been showing good signs lately! I like it! Please feel free to share us with whatever that concerns you! Have a great day ahead!

    August 4, 2014 at 10:46 am #1284
    a.z
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    Thank you very much Dara,its amazing i feel really relaxed.

    August 6, 2014 at 3:00 am #1551
    hani
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    I started the NC time few days ago and I feel so weak as all my friends left me alone dealing with this problem, I wish you all the best and I wish I could have your strength one day, you’re helping me alot with ur comments and I found the support that I could never have from my friends.

    August 6, 2014 at 5:02 am #1561
    RAED
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    A. Z.

    Hi! I guess Dara is right by saying that he has some kind of support to make you feel rejected with your words. I think that is what my ex had done too. She is not really a talker and she stutters but when the last time we saw each other, she talked to me confidently about how much I should consider moving on and put the past in the past. And guess ehat, it worked to my advantage. Because of what she told me and how she treated me, I hated her.

    It helped me a lot to move on. And because of that I realized my self-worth. Like if you don’t like me then I don’t like you too. I am more of pleading myself than pleasing her.

    What you’ve done is great. As they say you don’t have to always fix what is broken. Sometimes you have to make a stand because if you don’t, years from now you will still see yourself stuck on the same place. You will be missing out a lot if you will stick to him when he no longer serves you.

    Let go of what is weighing you down to give more room to something more worth it 🙂

    August 6, 2014 at 5:06 am #1562
    RAED
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    Hani,

    Hi. You can always come here. This is like a support-group for the brokenhearted. I, myself, would rather go here and talk to anonymous friends because with them I feel more connected than with my real life friends.

    The last time I messaged them about my situation and they kinda cut me off because we have to do something more important. Since then I never tried opening up to them, afraid that they got fed up with the drama though I only did it once with them.

    This site and these people will be of big help. I am batchmates here with the oldies. The first time we are here we were so desperately dying to get our exes back. But look at us now, having some sense of good pride to not rely our happiness onto someone. And to know when to keep trying or just simply walk away 🙂

    August 6, 2014 at 6:25 am #1570
    a.z
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    hani,
    You will feel better soon.whenever you feel like you wanna talk,come here and talk to us.we started it together and we helped each other through our terrible days and trust me we were a mess during the first days of our post break up.so don’t worry we will always be there to help you

    Raed,
    Its really good to see you here,you are right.thank you very much buddy.

    August 19, 2014 at 1:36 pm #3752
    Vlad1991
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    Get Better Soon A.Z

    I hope everything goes will with whatever is happening in the hospital.

    August 19, 2014 at 1:50 pm #3754
    a.z
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    Haha thanks Vlad1,Yeah i’m having a good time here LOL

    August 21, 2014 at 7:45 am #4002
    Khine
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    Dear a.z,

    How wonderful ! You made a better decision for you. It’s hard to make . I always respect you as you have kind-hearted and always help others. I really hope you to be happy , friend. And thank you so much for every time you cheer me up.

    But For me, I can’t make this kind of decision yet. But don’t wanna see him anymore is truth. I wanna make over 3 months NC. I’m in 31 days of NC.

    Still mess up , honey. But as you told me before, just focus on myself.

    THANKS !

    August 21, 2014 at 8:07 am #4006
    a.z
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    Thank you Khine,Yeah you trust yourself.No matter what happens,your gonna be fine.
    Wish you all the best xx

    September 1, 2014 at 12:50 pm #5758
    Darren60
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    Hi A.Z. I have to go but thanks for responding to me and I will look at this and throw my thoughts in a little later when I return home. Best, Darren

    September 1, 2014 at 1:17 pm #5760
    a.z
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    Actually i don’t even care about that story anymore.He contacted me many times but i don’t even want to talk to him.

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