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He was not like that.
Actually due to our constant fights he started to hide things from me because he knew it will lead to another fight.
We both were actually frustrated.
He stated lying just to avoid fights but has been doing all those stuff.Right now he is not with me so it shouldn’t matter if he is talking to those girls or not.
But I still hate him for talking to them.
She was the girl who tried to create misunderstanding between us.
So I just hate her to the core. I want whether me and my ex are together or not, he shouldn’t talk to her.
But right now, he is talking to her.
I know he loves me but needs time after 3 months of constant fighting and was filled with frustration at the time of our break up.He is getting better now( his friends told me that)
And he tries to keep his mind off me so that he would miss me less and think less of me. Thats why he talks to those girls but I really bothers me so much!!!!!But he is lying to me and hides things from me.
For more details you can see my other threads.
He was flirting around and is still lying to me.
I really dont know what to do about this.@aamals hey you still have pretty good chances of getting him back. 12 years means so much.
And I think he just needs time. He is hurt and I think you should leave him alone for a while. He is not going anywhere. 🙂@aamals thanks for reading and replying 🙂
I m on NC again. But you know what? He is talking to those girls whom I hate a lot and have asked him not to talk to them.
We fought so many times on this and still he is talking to those girls. I don’t know what he wants and what he is upto :/And yes I would love to read your thread too 🙂
Hey babe,
I need your help on this one. Its like I just figured our the actual reason of our break up and why he didn’t contact me for 3 weeks. I am just guessing so I need your views too. They are valuable to me. Thanks in advance 🙂
And I hope your doing okay 🙂@alessana
Yeah I have already replied there 🙂
Everything’s gonna be okay. 🙂Hey there 🙂
Say everything you feel babe. You know him better than all of us. Send him a text that will touch his heart.
He might not respond and act like a total jerk.
But don’t worry
Start NC right after that text. You’ll be fine. I’m with you 🙂Thanks a ton dear 🙂
I want him to learn a lesson. He is not taking anything seriously in his life. So I have to do this.
I hope it will get better soon 🙂Hey,
Its just a break. Give her some time alone. She definitely loves you.
Start with NC. And if she approaches you, see the situation and then act.
I would suggest not to ignore her as she was being already neglected and thats the reason why is she unsure of what she wants.
Give her space and time to think about.
My advice would be not to initiate contact but when she does don’t ignore her.And, read these article.
Signs your ex still loves you
And if you both end up in a breakup, read this article and re read it.
How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back in 5 StagesWe fought again last night. It was going good. We told that we love eachother.
He isn’t seeing anyone and not even trying to see anyone.
The reason of the fight was that he is still not feeling sorry for his actions. He knows that he was at fault but not sorry enough.
So I’ve decided to start NC again till he reaches out for me in the way I want, which is feeling sorry about what he did to me and promising me that he won’t repeat it.
I sent him angry texts after the fight and told him that I don’t expect anything from him now.and told him to be happy and to stay away from me.
He didn’t reply but thats okay. I didnt even expect a reply from him.Did I do well?
Now that I know he loves me even after the separation of 1 month. He’ll chase me if I am any good to him. ( he told me he was happy for this 1 month atleast he didn’t have to fight with anyone. Idk if he said this in anger or what).
Today was almost day 26.
Hey showed so much concern today.
I tried to push him away but he said that he ll come to my place if I didnt talk to him.
I m actually having fever so he kept on asking what you ate today and all. And was asking me to eat mote and end me a picture while eating else he ll come at my place.
I told him not to contact me.
In our talk, he said “I know you have moved on but I haven’t and I won’t be able to ever”
But he didnt talk about getting back together. He didn’t say he was sorry about what happened. He just said he wants me to be happy.
I think he is not ready to be back together but still cares for me. 🙁
He tood me relationships don’t matter.
Which clearly shows he is not looking for one and doesn’t want me back 🙁Ummm.. It would be better if u just leave a short text.
And do tell him that you wont contact him because he doesnt like that.Don’t tell him about the healing thing.
Well I m getting confused too..hahah 😀
I told him I cant talk on call. He asked me to come on whatsapp as he is not having sms pack.
I replied that I dont use whatsapp anymore. So he told me that he will call me at night.
I replied with a no and told him that I ll install whatsapp soon.I hope I did the right thing. What you think guys?
Hey again,
Well according to me you should say whatever you feel inside about this whole situation.
But do tell him that you want to heal from this and you’ll no longer be in touch with him ( don’t tell him about 30 day NC)
you wish him good luck for his life.
And yes, just text him all this and also write that you dont even expect a reply of this text.
Tell him you love him but don’t tell him you want him back.
I think its important for him to know your feelings for him in order to decide what he actually wants.
Be strong you’re doing great. Start with NC right after that text and even if he replies to that, make sure you don’t reply back.
First 2 weeks will be hard but it will get better with passing days 🙂And hey. I broke NC because he was trying to see if I still care for him or not.
Update:
He again found an excuse to talk.
he texted me twice today. He said he wants to talk about studies.
I didnt reply and his nexrlt text was that his year’s gonna waste if I didnt reply.I kniw he can talk about this with anyone or even search the net. I think he was just checking whether it bothers me if his year’s gonna waste or not.
So I replied with just “yes?”And he texted me back “call me when you get free”
Should I call or just tell him to talk on text so that I can get enough time to reply after thinking.?
