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  • in reply to: ex misses me but doesn't want any kinda relationship #9058
    divjun
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    @bguarino
    Yeah!!! :):)
    I really wanted to know what he had to say to me but then I controlled myself.
    I want him to realise his mistake so I dont need to show any kinda care or love towards him.
    I hope he still tries to contact me. Fingers crossed πŸ™‚ πŸ˜€

    in reply to: ex misses me but doesn't want any kinda relationship #9052
    divjun
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    Hey everyone,
    Today is my 3 year anniversary with my ex.
    I am ignoring him nowadays. But guess what, he just called at 12.00 am sharp.:) I didnt pick though
    Im getting positive vibes:)

    divjun
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    See babe, I too had a 3 year long relationship and I know he is missing me. He just called me half an hour ago.
    He is also in college now but u know what if you felt that strong feeling for him, he too felt that.
    He might be enjoying there and having tye time of his life, but deep down he knows there is a girl who loved me a lot and is missing from his life.

    Like you said its not the end because you are not happy right now. So just wait for your good times.
    I know its hard but you dont have any option left

    divjun
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    Dont call him. If you really want to say anything to him, just text him. Simple.
    Starting NC is tough but it will get better with days. You ll get used to not hearing from him.
    Give him hus time.
    If he sent you a screenshot of his wallpaper then its quite possible that he wanted to hurt you with that.
    Dont forget absence makes the heart grow fonder.
    In this time you can also be sure about if you really want him back or not. And it will also give your ex time to realise what he truely wants.
    Dont worry just go with the flow πŸ™‚

    in reply to: ex misses me but doesn't want any kinda relationship #9037
    divjun
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    @alessana

    Awwww… your words literally touched me. πŸ™‚
    I m trying my level best to recover from this heartbreak.
    But somewhere inside my heart I still feel he loves me and this is not a break up but a break. We fought so much and he is still worried about me.
    We will be together if we are meant to be.
    Anyways tomorrow would be our 3 year anniversary. I hope he does something. Even a text would mean so much for me.
    But I have been ignoring him so idk if he will try to contact me again or not:(

    divjun
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    You both were together for 3 years that means he loves you but he is having some doubts about it.right?
    Dont worry! Start with nc today.
    Give him his space and time.
    Everything happens for a reason
    God bless πŸ™‚

    in reply to: ex misses me but doesn't want any kinda relationship #9017
    divjun
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    No I’m still not ready for ending NC.
    it was his fault and I dont know if I need to change.
    Moreover, I have rralised that I cant get over him ever.
    Dont know how to handle myself.

    in reply to: Will he come back? #8960
    divjun
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    I’m having almost same situation. My ex bf changed due to his college and whrn he met new friends.
    We both had our future plans together and were serious for eachother.

    We also haven’t talked about 3-4 weeks.
    But I was the one who broke up because he too was lying to me. He too was doing things which I hated the most. Didnt give me time.
    You just follow the 5 steps and leave the rest on god.
    Everything happens for a reason. πŸ™‚
    Take care

    in reply to: ex's reaction to NC. #8879
    divjun
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    Thanks πŸ™‚
    I will try not to see what he is doing and keep myself calm:)

    in reply to: ex's reaction to NC. #8873
    divjun
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    Hahaha..yes.. I know when you get to hear positive things you feel positive about yourself and your situation.
    But my ex is always online on whatsapp at night. It kinda bugs me everynight πŸ™
    I hope he continues trying to contact me πŸ™‚

    in reply to: Where do I go from here!? #8865
    divjun
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    Leslie dear, just forget for some time that you had a bf who broke up with you. Just live your life.
    My opinion is to leave it up to god.
    He does everything for a reason.
    If he wants you two to be together then you need not to worry.
    May be this time your relationship would be stronger than before.
    Stay positive and be happy.
    I know its hard
    I can feel the same pain.
    It never goes away.
    But leave that upto god right now.
    You ll feel light.:)

    in reply to: ex's reaction to NC. #8862
    divjun
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    Leslie, I have given my views on your sutuation.
    I feel like you still got a chance so dont worry. Be your best version for now πŸ™‚
    God bless πŸ™‚

    in reply to: ex's reaction to NC. #8860
    divjun
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    Thanks for your kind words
    And I believe if we are meant to be then we will be.
    I won’t tolerate any of his wrong deeds just to be in his life.
    If he loves me and values me then only I ll accept him because I did the break up! And I did it because of some reason.

    P.s. my ex and I go to the same gym. I stopped going there so that I wouldn’t have to see him daily.

    in reply to: ex's reaction to NC. #8847
    divjun
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    Thanks leslie,

    I know he wants to talk but I want him to fight for me fight for our love because it was him who did wrong.
    And I was the one who broke up with him.
    Though he is not feeling sorry for his actions

    in reply to: ex's reaction to NC. #8842
    divjun
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    Update
    Day 22 of NC
    he again told my friend that he wants to talk to me and he is worried about my studies.

    He also called me twice.
    Is he really that worried or just wants to talk?

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