Forum Replies Created
-
Posts
-
I dont think he sent it because he was mad. Nobody would include their friends in this and that too at 4 in the morning. I still feel he was drunk. if he loves you he would never have done this specially in front of his friends. Keep him blocked! His brother seems to be a nice person
You did the right thing by blocking him. He must be thinking with whom you’re talking that late andthats why told u to sleep.
About the voice note, he might be drunk. If he was with his 2 friends at 4am definitely they all were drunk.
You did absolutely correct blocking him. Keep it up
@ellie.. babe i ll suggest u to do strict nc. You are not in a good place right now. Texting him back will also mean you are still there. Take a break sweetie. You dont have to cause yourself pain. He has to see you are going and he has to decide what he wants. You have to be determined in order to get what you want.
@kaila
Don’t like anything. You are still on his mind, which is a good thing. Posting stuff doesn’t actually mean anything. If u Like those, he will think you still want him back. I know liking doesn’t mean anything just like posting stuff. But he is obviously doing all this on purpose. You liking them will mean you still check on him. For now, you have to make him think you are gone!!! How long you are into nc?@ellie, @mj, @KD how are you all doing? I hope you are good. 🙂
My advice to all is to try not think about your ex. Thinking about them and questioning their every move wont help in any way. You will mess with your mind. Instead try to find a source to make yourself busy. For me, it was watching movies and i started going to the gym.
Dont give your ex the power to rule over your mind too. No matter how hard u try, if you’re meant to be then you will be together. Have faith on god and on your love. Sometimes distance is important to feel that love again. Distance makes us realise the value of the other person. I know its easier said than done. Just TRY not to think about them and start doing something new. When you will be happy, your relation will get smooth too.@gingerone
I dont know your story but our friend @ellie read the letter which she wrote to her ex when she met him for the dinner. May be you can also try that?Yes, i understand. I got him back with him last time using nc only. But hey,if u don’t wanna do it its cool. Just work on yourself and be a strong woman,i know you are. Dont let him affect you so much.
@mj.. thankyou:)
@ellie i dont know any such way. I myself tried nc just to make him realise and it worked. It took me exactly a month. And yes..we are really back together:)
@ellie
Dont text him anything. If u dont wanna do nc,atleast not be the first one to reach out everytime. U texted him first before going to the test. Play it cool and seriously babe, work on yourself.I have something big to tell u guys
Me and him exhchanged texts yesterday. He was angry though and sounded like he wanna take revenge. But i didn’t reply so he simple texted that he loves me. I still didn’t reply. He texted me again 2 times.i sent him my goodbye text. Its a ling read. I thought i would have to start nc again. But turns out he accepted what he did and said “i dont want u back because ur happy, take your time.i will wait for you.i dont need any future chapters as you are my past,present and future” he told me how he felt and said that he ll give all his love ,attention and time which he hasn’t been giving me for a few months.
So, we are back together:)
Thank you guys for being my support system and i ll still come here and give u my advice to u all:)I think we all should do nc till our ex’s reaches out for us in a certain way we know they will talk to us.
My nc is over.. i replied to his text he sent me this morning. He said “everything is changing” i replied after 6 hours “you are the one who wanted to change it, why are you worried now?
I know he must be in college but i feel good to reply. I wrote a goodbye text but i am afraid it ll make things more complicated. So i ll wait and see how he reacts!@mj.. maintain nc a little longer.. you ll feel better.
@ellie he texted this morning also “you are not doing right, everything is changing”
I think its time to send a letter. But i am thinking of sending a goodbye letter like u did. What u suggest? I can finish off my letter today itself and maybe send it at night?
