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Khine and Rihanna,
I’m doing well, thank you. It feels like honeymoon stage again and this time around I have become a more understandable person. I’m back at her place and will probably stay here for another month or unril school starts in October. I hope that you guys are doing well.

Dara,
I hope that the assumptions you’ve made are not hurting you like it did to me when I’ve made assumptions. The best way to do it is be nice and be yourself. Let her play her mind games, you’re just trying to be nice and wanted to meet her before she leaves. Mind games lead to unhealthy relationships anyways and it is not attractive. You’ve known her for so long and if she doesn’t even want to have a lunch or drink with you, then you know you deserve someone better. I believe that if you went up to a girl you like and asked her out, she’d most likely say yes! Keep up the good workout (: I can’t wait to join you.

Lots of sex talk while I read the past conversations lol, hope everyone is doing well and are happy (:

About this guy, she said that he is a friend and friend of all her school mates that they spent time with. I reprimanded her the night she came back and she started crying. For this reason I had no clue that if this rusting relationship is because I took it too hard on her or it was because of the reignited feelings or possibly some promises that guy has made to her.

Guys,

It’s been a long time that I’ve moved on! I don’t care about her! I should say that even in the first day, I knew that I have to move on but the feeling of rejection worked against it. Moreover, she was the only one I hanged out with. Losing her meant that I would lose everyone I hanged out with.

I remember that after our first argument, she posted an album on her Facebook introducing the place she stayed in for those 10 days. Its was this girl and a couch she slept on. Nothing exciting! A couch and a lonely girl. Anyway, I concluded that I acted too rough on her and tried to be polite with her. She took advantage of it later and tried to retaliate. There were some instances that were great to build everything again but I was so frustrated that I did not hit the nail on head!

Unfortunately, I could never conclude that she is good or bad! There are a lot of evidence to prove me that she is bad. There are also a lot of evidences to prove her good!

Moreover, I had never seen anyone like her (mind games). I took advantage of this opportunity to learn more about her style of games. I am an adventurer. Even though I knew that I need some time to heal, I wanted to see if this NC will work or not! As I mentioned long ago and a.z. might remember, I can never marry this girl because she is too much in mind games but there were some urge wanting me to play her for a win! I can read minds! I think I am convinced that there is no chances of playing with her anymore!

I feel so relieved today! I had never told this story to any of my real life friends! I think my brain is empty with the feeling of playing back with her and taking revenge! I think, if I meet another girl, unlike all other girls I met, I can really play it cool!

Thanks everyone!

PS: there were two parts of me that wanted her back; one wanted her back to take revenge and another to rebuild everything again. While most other parts did not want to see her again! Yeah! Confusion was a lot!

A.Z – Sounds like your Ex did No contact for a period and feels like he is in a better place, he stuck to the plan and has improved his life. So he sent you a text to remind you of some bliss moment, like all the times when he called you Baby. Knowing that you would start missing him after being in NC for that period. Guessing he has been following Kevin’s plan. Give him a couple of days and you will get his hand written letter in the mail telling you how much he loves you and wants to be friends. His cunning plan is to be a false friend in the hope of reigniting bliss memories so you guys can get back together 😛

I agree that you were joking! They will reunite again! Go ahead a.z.!