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Hey A.Z,

I havent seen a response from you in a while and just wanted to make sure that you are okay and you didnt take as my request to have multiple people respond on my thread in a bad way. I didnt mean anything against you its just nice to get alot of input… you really helped me out in the beginning and i would like to hear from you again. I hope all is well with you!!

Mike

So you mean we are already in a relationship, honey!! I want to kiss you honey!! ha ha ha…

Well, to be honest, since I can read your mind, I had read it long before you mentioned it. I was confirmed when once you said, “I love you (in a good way)”. I guess there isn’t a bad way of loving, liking, etc. Don’t worry, usually attractions are mutual!

I was thinking that we would somehow exchange emails and get in touch in real world maybe with the knowledge that we can date one day if we happen to live in the same state or plan to live in the same state. The second part requires some effort like applying for some internship (nice idea)! Probably, knowing the “real” us would help decide, honey!

Oh, no I have no one in my list to date! 😀

By the way, I suggest you to read that Non-violent communication once again! 😉 I’m a bit worried! ha ha ha…

Rihanna – I have heard of Australia, Isn’t it that small island off the coast of New Zealand? I didn’t realise it was an independent country, I was taught in school that it was a state of New Zealand. Funny what random stuff you learn. You list all the things about you, but aren’t all Australians blonde, tanned and beautiful bikini babes who surf all day with kangaroos while drinking Fosters. You can add that to your list also of great things about you 🙂

When it comes to money, my parents taught me how to save but never how to invest. So I’m actually really good at saving money and working towards goals, but when it comes to investing money I normally either blow the money I have saved up or make bad decisions with my money. I’m lucky as a few years back in some moments of clear thought I saved enough to purchase a small apartment, which I still live in. But I will try to help as I can 🙂

Lavanya – Sorry I missed your earlier post/question about NC if you break it do you go back to day 1. No Contact is about you and giving yourself time to heal and not appearing needy to your Ex. Use NC as a tool to evaluate your own life and make the changes required in your life to be a better person in your future relationships (Whether that is with your Ex or another person). It is not a rule or remedy that if you break it you are a bad person. So don’t see it as being back at square one or day 1 because you had to interact with your Ex due to study purposes.

Festival Dave – Great place where you are at with your Ex and that you feel if she asked you out you would say no. Small request for us here – Don’t leave us as we would all be sad. I know you mention you don’t post as much but I would still love to hear about all your travelling stories even if you don’t have updates on your Ex

Raed – I know how you feel, I have more down days then up. As Dara and others know. It can be easy to spend the nights home alone with a bottle of wine and get sad thinking about what you had

A.Z – Love you too 🙂 I think the groom is just playing hard to get but he likes you. Maybe if you went 30 days NC on him, he might start missing you and change his gameplay 😛

Update – Ok just read some more of the thread now…gee it is hard to keep up with you two, so much happens in 24hours. Things are moving along quickly