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  • #2629
    FestivalDavid
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    Haha, yeah I agree it’s very good that we can all come here and have a laugh…somewhere where people can come to a positive atmosphere but at the same time get a realistic opinion is really good πŸ™‚

    A.z, I know what you mean ha, I haven’t been thinking about my ex much either..like obviously I do a bit..but like you I don’t get upset and it doesn’t bother me if she don’t reply. It does seem longer than a week though! Haha. Think it shows how far we’ve all come πŸ™‚

    Well…after Europe, going to China for work I think then I still got some holiday after that…but I might not have the money to keep up with what I want to do πŸ˜‰ ha

    Profiles… hmmm well lets see

    David from UK, just about to turn 26. Despite been named festival David….Never been to a proper festival as the name came from what my ex was going to at the time and there was another David :).
    get told on a regular basis by friends and strangers that I’m a “legend”. Enjoying going to pub a lot! And love my food and sleep πŸ™‚ and laugh at everything

    Think the song barenaked ladies “one week” describes me quite accurate

    How can I help it if I think you’re funny when you’re mad
    Trying hard not to smile though I feel bad
    I’m the kind of guy who laughs at a funeral
    Can’t understand what I mean?
    Well, you soon will
    I have a tendency to wear my mind on my sleeve

    #2631
    a.z
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    Hello oldies,
    Aaaaaw,now that he calls me honey so first of all BABY :D, i always wanted to have 4 kids πŸ˜€ what do you think?:)))

    Yeah,i remember daddy -long-legs :)))i loved juddy abott:D.

    All of you guys are gonna be bridemaids/groommaids πŸ˜€ and kevin is guest of honor :D:)))))
    OMG can’t wait for my wedding dress :O :O :O :))) baby,is your brother gonna be one of the groommaids?cuz i have a beautiful sister πŸ˜€
    RAED,Rihanna,FestivalDavid,everyone…,
    Pack your bags,your next trip should be to US.

    Baby,
    I’m going out with some of my friends.you should go start clubbing,enjoy your last days of singlehood :D:)))

    #2633
    a.z
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    FestivalDavid,
    I’m so happy for you πŸ˜€ yeah all of us have been doing really well.btw,save some money.you should travel here soon πŸ˜€

    #2640
    FestivalDavid
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    Haha, trust me I’ll try save some money ;).

    I actually heard from my ex today wishing me good time on my trip

    I replied coz I can’t be ignorant when she’s been nice ha. We didn’t ask how either of us were doing etc which was good because now we not exactly talking as friends so no more arguments I hope! And the conversation lasted about 10 mins and wasn’t really talking to each other…was more like just replying to each others General statements then a conversation if that makes sense πŸ™‚

    #2644
    Robot 3
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    WOWW! Honey, I also love to have 3, 4 or 5 kids! Great!! Jumping up and down, breaking everything! ha ha ha… I hope my brother will be one of the groommaids. I should say that he has a girlfriend of 5 years!

    Take care and have fun, honey! πŸ˜‰

    RAED,

    Things are getting pretty serious! ha ha ha…

    #2646
    Loraina
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    Omg you guys make me laugh so hard it’s crazy. XD Loving that this is becoming a dating forum lol! How about I think I have an ex who is now attempting to get ME back permanently?!? What a switch!

    #2649
    Robot 3
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    Loraina,

    That’s great! Be cool and control the process of getting back! Congratulations!!

    #2650
    mike2014
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    It is very nice to come on this board and find some comfort by reading other stories and even get some words of encouragement and advice on my own. We all are going through similar experiences and feel a shared common way.

    Dara, I appreciate your words of encouragement on my story and the advice you have given. Thank you.

    My story is kind of long and by now a page or two back, but if anyone else would like to share a comment on my situation it would be appreciated.

    #2664
    Rihanna
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    OMG there’s a wedding and I’m a bridesmaid hahaha… that’s my worse nightmare being a bridesmaid, I have to be one soon for my younger sister … But I’m sure it will be much more fun for a.z and i’ve always wanted to come to US so that’s great excuse for it ha!

    Festival David, I admire your spirit really! You seem to be doing great in life going trips a lot and splurging which is great! I hope to get to the point where I’m able to do that myself, but it’s not happening fast enough hahaha.. And you talked to your ex that’s good also, but I’ve come to the point where I think so what? who cares?! I hate how we were all hung up on our exes and would celebrate a little phone call from them like they’re God or something… Mine hasn’t responded to my text and hasn’t been in contact with me for almost a week also but I think he’s going through a rough time and he’s working towards improving his life situation which is great, or good for him πŸ™‚

    I really really really want to finish my semester here and move back to the big city. I’m trying to save from now til the start of 2015 to have around $6000, do you guys thing it’s enough to get me started? My sis wedding is pissing me off hahaha… not for anything other than expenses, like flights back here and a gift and extra spending money etc… But I really want to go live in the city and because i’m by myself I need some of your support or good advice, should I do it or should I live here and try to be happy πŸ™ ? Thank you so much peeps, I hope I’m not making the ‘move to city’ decision to be closer to my ex but in general I was happier there than here … Can’t wait to hear your advice πŸ™‚ Big love to allxx

    #2670
    RAED
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    Dara and A. Z.
    Omg. You are making me jealous! Ha ha. Could you please make twins? I don’t know, having twins feel like having a lucky clover. Lol. And I guess you will not visit here always because you would have to party so hard before you tie knots. Best wishes! πŸ˜€

    Rihanna
    The last time your problem is that everyone around you is getting married or pregnant right? Lol. We are gonna have a couple anytime now. Ha ha!

    About you moving to the big city, if you feel more at home there not because of the ex but because you have gotten accustomed to the place or because the place radiates such a lovely vibe than where you are now, then I think it would do no harm if you will transfer there.

    If you think you will be happier in that place and productive then go ahead. Though your ex is near there, I believe transferring to places is a sign of a good start πŸ™‚

    Loraina
    Wow. Your ex wanting you back? The NC did the turning tables I guess? Ha ha! Where can I view your story? πŸ™‚

    Festival David
    I envy you lots. Seems you have unlimited resources to travel lol.

    #2672
    Lavanya
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    Steve,
    U said not to contact my ex even for studies purpose. I already completed 13days of NC rule. On 14th day i broke the rule. From 2days we are discussing about studies only. Should i start my no contact from beginning? Is it wise to ignore my ex when he is trying to helping me?

    #2673
    Lavanya
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    My ex only initiated to contact me and help me in studies. He is giving me advices. But he is talking only about studies. I think he only wants to concentrate on his career, and he is not having interest in me:( I am afraid that he will move on. How can i show him that i changed my past habits? How can i ignore him if he contacts me for studies purpose?

    #2675
    Steve
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    This thread is so silly…I heart it

    Festival Dave – Haha, yeah I remember when we had the 2 David’s on the comments section and it got so confusing. I remember one thread and it looked like you were having a conversation with yourself, but with two different opinions. I came away from reading that so confused. But you get a “like” from me from your profile for enjoy going to the pub. I know the English are renown for their social pub scene which is almost a way of life for them. Totally into that

    Raed – So agree with you about feeling jealous with Dara and A.Z- they already sound such a perfect couple. Its amazing how love strikes when we least expect it. Planning the wedding already…YAY!!!!

    Sunshinegirl – In case I forget next week, Good luck with your exam. I hope you can stay focus and not be distracted by your Ex with all your study from now until then

    Rihanna – Do you mind me asking what country you are from? To me $6000 is a great kick start if you are moving and starting a fresh in a different city. But listen to your heart even if you have to get by yourself for a bit to get the answer. I am sure there are pros and cons for both staying and going. But never let how much money you have/don’t have be a determining factor in your decision.

    Mike will have a look at your thread shortly. Dara is pretty good with his feedback so I would probably agree with what he has said

    #2676
    Rihanna
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    Hey Ya Steve, How you doin’ mate? Have you guessed yet where I live… yep! all the way down under in the beautiful Australia! and By moving to the big city I mean to the one of the most expensive cities SYDNEY! I’ve lived there for 4 years and I’m itching to get back there… I found good shared accommodation for $150-$200 a week incl. electricity and gas etc… also, I have been looking for Salon placements and I think I have a bigger chance there than in the little town of Adelaide πŸ™ … So, by the end of the year I should have at least $6000 if I do my homework right :)… I’m currently concentrating on my studies, I’ve called my college there and my place is still in tact so I won’t be giving up my studies just transferring back to the better college I was attending before moving to Adelaide (aka ghost town) hahaha… Anyone here live in Oz?

    I’ve been feeling down alot lately, and it’s because I look at my life and nothing seems right. I was married first out of all my friends (age 21… stupid!) and though it was HUGE failure I kept working on a dead marriage until one year ago when I called it quits! I fell in love with my ex, he has no security and don’t know why I love him… ALL my friends are doing so well with their careers and families and children and money bla bla … I feel so embarrassed about the way I am now :'( … I feel like depression is gonna hit anytime soon if I don’t keep my spirit alive and my dream in front of me and this is why I want to move to Sydney, cos I was so happy there even years before I met my current ex. I’m 32 and have done zero in my life that I can be proud of! please add that to my profile lOL

    #2681
    Lavanya
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    a.z,
    These are my previous threads,hope u will help me. Thank you

    Can i thank my ex during no contact

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