need advice please

I got silly question,i have been on limited contact to my ex gf only send her 3 whats app messages this week and only that kinda messages what i hope to cheer her up because weather in finland has been bad and cheer her up in the work 😀 first one was picture from forrest where was text ; out of the darkness there is always light. i got: thanks 🙂
message from her. second one was picture from river from our trip to lapland with nice view with text: A badday, take moment for yourself and take couple of deep breaths and relax at the same time think something what will calm you down. made that picture more myself but ended up to send it to her.got message back from her at work.nice picture have nice weekend. is it silly/stupid to send that kinda stuff? with only goal to cheer her up because i kinda dont wanna end up into the friendzone 😀

Please advise
I went on vacation in August. Reconnected with my young age love. While on vacation he didn’t speak of his feelings. But when when I got back we talked and decided to give us a try. I was hesitant due to the fact that he lives in another country. At first everything was cool and we even planned on going away. He cancelled our trip 2 days before we went away. I Was So Angry I didnt contact Him For 2 weeks. Then we began speaking. He talked about how much he missed me and was happy to be in contact with me again. About 2 week’s ago he started not answering my calls, even though we had no arguments or issues. I get angry when he don’t answer my calls since it’s our only way of communication. On 10/30 we talked buy conversation was kinda weird. He also said he wanted to talk to me about something but would rather discuss the next day. He also said that in 2 week’s we could discuss taking a trip together. My thing is why bring up something you can not discuss at that moment. We spoke on 11/14 he didn’t mention anything and I didn’t ask. He said he would talk later but for me not to call him that he would call me. I didn’t hear from him on Sunday he called Monday morning. I kept the conversation very short. We didn’t hang up on bad terms. And I haven’t heard from him since Monday. Don’t know how to handle this type of relationship. He keeps asking me to be patient with him and I feel that I’m. However, how can we establish anything if we hardly even talk on the phone.

hello @Mj321 how are you holding up?!

the same, but you know the feeling that something is missing?

patience is the key to everything

I hope you all holding up good 🙂 my 5 days waiting starts soon dunno how i can wait the next weekend to see my ex gf..I”m just wondering and thinking a little how it will go 😀
because in past and during our breakup my ex sayed that we need to be apart for a while because we was together 3 years and she need to fix stuff on her self alone ( she got depression and other stuff what she had allready before she met me) and she wasnt sure about my utopia question to us be together again and didnt say anything to text where i sayed that when we meet, i hope it is fresh start to us and we should look where it goes ( tough she accepted invitation to teahouse in 3 min next day from that message) Im just wondering so many stuff atm on my mind: like why she has allways forgived me after breakup and how long is the time we need to be apart to try again..and so many many stuff what men brain cant understand because answers are women logic no offence to all women here 🙂 but im hoping that im cool and calm when we meet tough i think i might get urge to atleast hug and kiss her ;D