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@gingerone

Not too good i’m back to NC day 2 i managed to have lunch with her during the weekend. and i forgot the game plan. i guess i thought we would get back together after having lunch. we ended up arguing because i kept trying to convince her to give me a chance. i ended up going to her place to try to apologize for my behaviour that was a bad idea.

She told me she hates me and she didn’t want to ever see me again and i ruined the little chance she was going to give me.
she later calmed down and gave me advice for the future relationships and said yea theres no more chance.

The next day Saturday she texted me to give her stuff to my friend so she can pick it up from him and she doesn’t want to see me. I didn’t respond to the text then at night around 2am she texted saying she doesn’t hate me but i can’t keep doing what I’m doing. I didn’t respond to that text also. then she called on Sunday we talked for a bit i apologized and told her i’ll chill but please don’t completely close the door on the chance i was going to get. the conversation went ok and that the last time we spoke.

Sorry guys i think i was close, but now i will take this as a learning opportunity for when she contacts me again and i’ll be in control this time with my emotions.

DAY 12

Ok guys, I broke NC ON DAY 10 and 11 i lost my phone on sunday, so i called her on Monday to let her know she can reach me at my new number.

we talked on the phone for 11min it seemed like a positive conversation, which lead me to think of her through out Tuesday… so i woke up Wednesday morning i felt the need to let her know i have changed and i know what i did wrong during our relationship.

so i went to her house since i had a few hours before my meeting, i made sure i was looking good, i wore a suit i felt confident, i spelled good…. I know i wasn’t suppose to see her but i kinda followed my heart. lol

I called her when i got to her place she picked up. and we spoke on the phone for about 30mins, i told her all things i know i did wrong, i told her i want to take things slow and i took the blame for the break up. i eventually asked her to let me into the house that i have a letter for her. she did let me in, as soon as i got in she saw how well dressed i was and i gave her a really good hug, i couldn’t help it i missed her lol we held the hug for a while as if we missed each other.
she didn’t really put her hands on me she kinda hesitated, i could feel her hands but she had her head rested on my shoulders. then i pulled away and held her hips well i glanced at her face and kissed her on her chick she didn’t seem to mind. then we both smiled.

So i gave her the letter we talked for a bit i went to her room with her and i noticed she had the flowers i sent her during the breakup with my apology note and a teddy bear i gave her on her table. i was kinda happy she didn’t get rid of it. its obvious she still loves me.

Since she had to go to work i walked her to her car and we left.

What do you guys think should i try to message her every 3-4 days or wait a week or wait for her to message me while continuing NC until next month?

Thanks

DAY 12

Ok guys, I broke NC ON DAY 10 and 11 i lost my phone on sunday, so i called her on Monday to let her know she can reach me at my new number.

we talked on the phone for 11min it seemed like a positive conversation, which lead me to think of her through out Tuesday… so i woke up Wednesday morning i felt the need to let her know i have changed and i know what i did wrong during our relationship.

so i went to her house since i had a few hours before my meeting, i made sure i was looking good, i wore a suit i felt confident, i spelled good…. I know i wasn’t suppose to see her but i kinda followed my heart. lol

I called her when i got to her place she picked up. and we spoke on the phone for about 30mins, i told her all things i know i did wrong, i told her i want to take things slow and i took the blame for the break up. i eventually asked her to let me into the house that i have a letter for her. she did let me in, as soon as i got in she saw how well dressed i was and i gave her a really good hug, i couldn’t help it i missed her lol we held the hug for a while as if we missed each other.
she didn’t really put her hands on me she kinda hesitated, i could feel her hands but she had her head rested on my shoulders. then i pulled away and held her hips well i glanced at her face and kissed her on her chick she didn’t seem to mind. then we both smiled.

So i gave her the letter we talked for a bit i went to her room with her and i noticed she had the flowers i sent her during the breakup with my apology note and a teddy bear i gave her on her table. i was kinda happy she didn’t get rid of it. its obvious she still loves me.

Since she had to go to work i walked her to her car and we left.

What do you guys think should i try to message her every 3-4 days or wait a week or wait for her to message me while continuing NC until next month?

Thanks

I planned on doing 30 days NC today is day 7 and she contacted me on day 7

she texted me.

“Hey how are you doing?”

i replied i’m doing good how about you?

she says “i’m well.i don’t really have anything to say but for the last few days i’ve been thinking about you and just praying that everything is well with you so i’m happy to hear you are good.”

I kept it cool and said “Thanks for checking up on me. everything is good. I’m just leaving the gym with a friend. glad to hear you’re doing well ;)”

she replies “Okay have a good night ttyl”

Now i’m back to NC i feel like this is a good sign and motivation to finish the month without contacting her first. so i’ll just wait.

What do you guys think? I’m still going to not contact her first until next month, as i’m continuing NC.

Thanks

@Juan10

Congratulations…. How long did you guys date for before, and you did NC for 2 weeks right. before she contacted you?

Oh Ok yea give her space, i know i messed up by not giving her the space in the early stages she asked for. But hopefully with the NC she will see i’m serious about respecting her wishes and trying to make things work.

I think you should be fine she will contact you so thats a positive.

Ok, i hope it goes well for you. Im currently on day 5 of NC. i have to come up with a similar approach beginning of April also.

Im hoping she contacts me first but its likely that would happen in 3 weeks assuming it takes 2weeks for her to notice i haven’t messaged or called her.

How many days NC are you in?