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Will she love me again?

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  • March 15, 2015 at 11:05 am #36505
    mikejones0440
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    Do I text her back and tell her I’m doing good/act like I am over her or continue no contact? Help anybody

    March 15, 2015 at 12:16 pm #36510
    kaila
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    keep nc i think

    March 15, 2015 at 12:42 pm #36515
    angel510
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    I think you should continue no contact for now. When I did no contact the first time I waited the full 30 days and then texted my ex. Prior to this he would not respond at all to texts/phone calls. After the 30 days, I texted him just to see how he was doing and he responded – it was very neutral and a short conversation. We talked several times after that and had much longer and friendlier conversations. Then last weekend he texted me and we were chatting and he said something about not waiting for him forever and how he knows I want a serious, committed relationship and I should have that. This was very discouraging and I have implemented no contact again.

    March 17, 2015 at 5:06 pm #36855
    mikejones0440
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    So my ex contacted me on day 10 of no contact saying she wanted to say hi and see how i was doing. I waited two days before texting her back. We texted for 4 hours last night and she seemed like she missed me. We talked about work and she brought up old memories of us. I told her I was doing really good. Before she went to bed she said goodnight and told me she was happy I answered her. I said it was good talking to you she said you too and went to bed. She hasn’t texted me today and I want to talk to her but I’m going to continue no contact. Can anyone tell me if they have any idea how she feels about me?

    March 19, 2015 at 2:08 pm #37162
    tygatyga
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    DAY 12

    Ok guys, I broke NC ON DAY 10 and 11 i lost my phone on sunday, so i called her on Monday to let her know she can reach me at my new number.

    we talked on the phone for 11min it seemed like a positive conversation, which lead me to think of her through out Tuesday… so i woke up Wednesday morning i felt the need to let her know i have changed and i know what i did wrong during our relationship.

    so i went to her house since i had a few hours before my meeting, i made sure i was looking good, i wore a suit i felt confident, i spelled good…. I know i wasn’t suppose to see her but i kinda followed my heart. lol

    I called her when i got to her place she picked up. and we spoke on the phone for about 30mins, i told her all things i know i did wrong, i told her i want to take things slow and i took the blame for the break up. i eventually asked her to let me into the house that i have a letter for her. she did let me in, as soon as i got in she saw how well dressed i was and i gave her a really good hug, i couldn’t help it i missed her lol we held the hug for a while as if we missed each other.
    she didn’t really put her hands on me she kinda hesitated, i could feel her hands but she had her head rested on my shoulders. then i pulled away and held her hips well i glanced at her face and kissed her on her chick she didn’t seem to mind. then we both smiled.

    So i gave her the letter we talked for a bit i went to her room with her and i noticed she had the flowers i sent her during the breakup with my apology note and a teddy bear i gave her on her table. i was kinda happy she didn’t get rid of it. its obvious she still loves me.

    Since she had to go to work i walked her to her car and we left.

    What do you guys think should i try to message her every 3-4 days or wait a week or wait for her to message me while continuing NC until next month?

    Thanks

    March 19, 2015 at 11:30 pm #37238
    Juan10
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    I did NC 2 weeks n she contacted me. She noticed a change n that day we got back together. But 3 days later she cut me off again. Im on day 4 NC i don’t know what to expect now

    March 23, 2015 at 8:59 am #37628
    mikejones0440
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    After 10 days of no contact my ex contacted me. I waited two days before texting her back. We spoke for 4 hours. She then texted me the next two nights and I responded we had good conversations I told her I was doing well. We didnt talk again until I drunk texted her asking to get lunch with me this past Sunday morning. She said she couldn’t because her cousin was staying with her until Monday morning. I also told her I missed her and I asked if she missed me and she said yea but don’t take that the wrong way and I said I wont I got over it. The next morning (yesterday) I apologized for drunk texting her and we spoke basically all day til we went to bed. I can’t tell if she thinks we are just good friends or just misses talking to me but why else does she text me all day? Does she just want me to be her good friend? I decided to start NC again today but I just wish I could know how she feels about me does anyone have any input for me??

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