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Well its hard to say it took her more time then usual to answer maybe she was with the guy. But she told me she was kiding about the hot chocolate but i told her we could still go and she accepted. And i had trouble to make conversation because she had short answers and i had nothing to say -.-
Good just hold yourself down, this is proof that he is thinking of you 🙂 its good news
So just keep doing NC dont answer him until its over
Dont answer stay true to NC
But tell me what its about? If uts about you or both of you dont answer
You definetly have a chance whether or not its serious. Just keep on doing what your doing and you’ll be better, dont do it for him do it for you and he might not be as happy as you think haha
I would personaly push jt up to 30 i mean might as well haha. But the main objective is to work on yourself and to get better emotionaly and physicaly so if you are ready at 21 days go right ahead but make sure that your not a mess, you did positive changes, went on one date and understand that you might not get your ex back and that its now the end of the world if you dont because you have plenty of other possibilities.
Not sure about what?
I did not speak to her, im feeling a little stress to the fact that she might be serious but i believe its not gonna last. Even if it is serious i have a shot but ya im thinking of her alot
how about you?
We are thinking a like you and i. He did move on quick but he is only running from the pain which will eventualy come to him.
Right now he is in a fairytale but trust be when i say life will soon beat him to his knees and he will see reality thats when he will see that it was a mistake and start having all those feelings he just stock up inside him.
The thought of them being together and all insecurities to how it happened and what happend when we were with our exes is gut renching i know. Trust me i think of her everyday! For 2 weeks i cried everyday, i lost 15 pounds (which i chose not to gain back i just got cut instead ).
Its a hard time for sure and these questions will follow you threw this whole situation and will probably follow you when you’ll be with him as well.
See it this way the pain of breaking up with you left him lonely, sad, mad and depressed. She was there to support him. Then he was getting comfortable and they started doing things it wasnt their intentions but it happened because of the intimate feeling they were sharing. Then they started seeing each other to the date each other. Now they believe they are in love but everything in their relationship is moving quickly just so he can reach the level of intimacy he was sharing with you! Some day he will see that its not as “GREAT!” As they envisioned it to be and most likely will break up.
Read this page https://exbackpermanently.com/is-your-ex-in-a-rebound-relationship/
Just know you have a chance! Everyone does no matter what the situation is as long as they have will and work hard
Its because you love him
I feel the same, my heart races when i text her i am over joyed every time haha.
But stop worying about him not contacting you, your worying yourself for nothing and its nkt doing you any good!
I have to make her make comfortable because she dosent want to open up to me yet.i also believe i have a shot but its fragile.
As for me being strong well i am better but not so much i just got over the pain and got to grow because of classes i had this semester which helped me control my emotions and understanding situations from different aspects.
I took my time to get better NC helped me alot and so did my 2 real good buddies who understood me and supported me. Just know that there is someone out there that is thinking of you and wish he was by your side! You know why? Because just like everyone you have an amazing personality so keep your head up high you can do this
See it this way 42 days ago i was in your shoes! And now you perceive me as strong so do most of my friends why because i worked on myself and believed in myself thats what you must do
1. Find someone who you can confess too and get support
2. Find what you can change in yourself and do it
3. Love yourself again
4. Do things you love
5. Enjoy life
After NC contact him and see whats up !
They could seem very comfortable but in the end he was still in a 8 month relationship with you, trust you are not out of his mind. He might not want to talk because he has negative feelings towards you because of the neediness but in time he probably will contact you.
He will obviously have fun with the new girl because she takes his mind of you and the break up but when he is alone he probably feels alone and thinks about what happened.
“Let time do its job” as they say, i personally hate this quote but in the end for this particular situation it comes out to be true. Time will show him what he lost and he might contact you, he still remembers you and thinks of you for sure.
Dont give up, i feel like giving up as well from time to time but im going with the flow and trying to make things better either with or without her.
Like you said he is just like my ex both of them hide their feelings, he is probably very stubborn.
My situation is hard to read to be honnest, she is warm in her texts like its always positive now. The problem is that she was never the person to move quick in a relationship and she says she cant live without him. This guy is her whole life right now because she is hurt for many reasons but not only me if its a reason haha i dont know. She quit her job, fails french which she was very good at, she hides her bf from me, she also shows her emotions on ask.fm which she never shows like its rare that she would send me sweet texts because she is shy and i see her talking about how important this guy is to her.
She responds quick to my messages and seems exited about going for a hot chocolate. All im wondering is what should i do, should i try seduce her by touching her or no touching? Like im afraid to do the wrong move and also she has a bf and i feel bad a little if ever im the cause of their break uo if ever it happens.
Her sister even told one of my good friends that i was the best guy my ex could of gotten and that she is making a bunch of bad decisions now a days
My ex is lost right now, and im very dissapointed in her actions towards me i just dont know how to handle it i want her to confess and explain but i’ll wait to know if i have a shot or not then i’ll ask when its the right time.
I understand you completly cuz at some point you and yiur ex did not see yourselves appart from each other it was the same for us.
Now she is with this guy and says she could not live without him makes me mad and sad but i cant keep being depressed.
I still got to set up a date yesterday with her so thats good she agreed to see me for coffee haha made a bet and lost against her so i have to pay her a hot chocolate.
She is getting warmer to my texts so well see where i go.
As for him not missing you, you cant really say that since your not in his head he might be thinking of you when your not with her and he is most likely comparing you to her. So stay calm and keep doing what your doing everything will be alright 🙂
