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So i broke my no contact.. And she keeps insisting we should meet up before the end pf the month because its important i asked why still no answer since shes at work but shouldnt be long
@patricia12 this is in the right bord for this topic therefor the reason why i posted here.. Now im not looking to be told what to post and where to do it and how to do it.. And she is the one contacting me via facebook and i unfollowed her on facebook so i couldnt see her things and i wasnt stalking her but she clearly was now shes mad and hurt but it all goes into this
“Sneaky Sign No. 3: Push/Pull Behavior
If your ex is cold one minute and hot the other, then you can be sure they have feelings for you. They will pull away and won’t talk to you for weeks, and then suddenly push to spend time with you. They will ignore your calls and then start calling you everyday. They will stop responding to your texts and then start texting you randomly.
This behavior simply means that they are confused about their feelings for you. Their heart is still in love with you but they are trying to convince themselves that they should stay broken up. They miss you and want to spend time with you, but they are stopping themselves because they think you are not good for them.
What You Should Do?
Be cool. Stay calm and don’t let their irrational behavior get to you. If you respond to their unstable behavior, you are showing a sign of neediness. Whatever happens, don’t ever ask them “Why you didn’t reply to my text?” or “Why you didn’t pick up my call?”If they become cold, you become cold. Simple as that. Don’t reward their cold behavior by paying them more attention.”
@patricia12 fair enough but this account existed for another ex.. Thought i could come back and post again for another.. And ive viewed a video from brad browning that says “under no circumstances should no contact be broken,no matter the cost” ive got a week left to this no contact thing.. And still trying to see myself if its what i want or not..
@lin91
My ex messaged me today to tell me she will be deleting me off facebook because im not responding to her.. I dont want to break no contact.. Because ive read and herad that you shouldnt break it under no circumstances!
But i did tell her i needed space before she ever sent me that and now she says that this is all very imature and wishes me a good life.. Im continuing no contact as she could read the messages i sent her and see that i say word for word i need time right now and we will talk at the end of the month
And now she sent me another message saying “honnestly its not my problem if your dont answer lol”
I still didnt respond
I think he wants you because he said so! As for what he said he dosent want to comit and be pressured into a relationship he wants to take it easy so just be friends with the guy if he dosent answer no worries and dont pressure him or yourself to think yall are a couple that will happen in time but not now
Look im in your shoes as well im having a hard time too, i want my ex back, i tried to move on and find a new partner it dosent work.. i need help as well but im getting tired of always helping you without you helping me.. id love to tell you what to do exactly to get your guy back but clearly im no expert since i cant even get my own ex back.. i just want you to help me as a favor in return of me trying to help you out :$ clearly your guy wants you! You just need to get stronger, more independant and happier and hell come back for sure! He needs to have fun and switch up his mindset provide that and im pretty sure it could do the trick! Now what do you think do i have a chance? I sent her a msg 3 days ago but she never read it or replied she wasnt on facebook for 3 days either im thinking she went on a trip in NY with school but ya i really love her! And i do dreams that predict the future and ive been dreaming alot about her and i do you think it means she will come back? Yesterday ive been gaving suicidal thoughts and bringning back my bud to his gf’s house made me jealous and nostalgic thinking about me when i was with my ex 🙁
You just need to stop beeing needy and he will be back because he needs a strong persone to build himself up again all insee is that if both of you were to come back it wouldnt work out since both of you arent doing great..
How can he be depressed? And i dream about my ex 6-7 times out of 10 and i never got close to having her back and i dont think i ever will.. i love her so much and wish for her to come back but i guess im not good enough anymore.. this situation makes me want to pay for the ex factor guide to win her back! Because i only think of her i onmy want her ive been woth other women since and dated probably like 8 and everytime i end it because i only want my ex
Theres not much you can do.. you can try to initiate conversation sometimes but thats it..
Its because you still seem like your old self maybe and he dosent want to date the old you but the new you! The one that dosent over think, isnt needy, dosent make problems
