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So my ex messaged me a few times since i started no contact 2 and a half weeks ago..
Las two messages were “this is verry imature, i dont know why you wont tell me whats going on but have a nice life” and the last one was received today and she said “ill be deleting you off my facebook because i dont know why id stay friends with someone who isnt responding to my messages”
The other messages whe was sending were towards things i posted or liked.. She got mad at me.. She even asked if i was back on tinder guess cuz she was afraid id be back out there..
Suggest you stay away from social media as it often causes more problems..
Also suggest you stop putting up new posts for the same issue! It’s confusing..@patricia12 this is in the right bord for this topic therefor the reason why i posted here.. Now im not looking to be told what to post and where to do it and how to do it.. And she is the one contacting me via facebook and i unfollowed her on facebook so i couldnt see her things and i wasnt stalking her but she clearly was now shes mad and hurt but it all goes into this
“Sneaky Sign No. 3: Push/Pull Behavior
If your ex is cold one minute and hot the other, then you can be sure they have feelings for you. They will pull away and won’t talk to you for weeks, and then suddenly push to spend time with you. They will ignore your calls and then start calling you everyday. They will stop responding to your texts and then start texting you randomly.
This behavior simply means that they are confused about their feelings for you. Their heart is still in love with you but they are trying to convince themselves that they should stay broken up. They miss you and want to spend time with you, but they are stopping themselves because they think you are not good for them.
What You Should Do?
Be cool. Stay calm and don’t let their irrational behavior get to you. If you respond to their unstable behavior, you are showing a sign of neediness. Whatever happens, don’t ever ask them “Why you didn’t reply to my text?” or “Why you didn’t pick up my call?”If they become cold, you become cold. Simple as that. Don’t reward their cold behavior by paying them more attention.”
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