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Stop stalking your ex it wont help you at all. You can get him back, stop worying about this. Delete him and his gf from every social media, clense yourself from them it will help you work on yourself.
For your friends well it cant be really helped you can explain to them how you feel and try to make them sensible to your situation but if they dont understand they are not real friends i got mad to some of my friends and family members for telling me i could do better so dont let them affect you is what i suggest since only you know what is good or not for you, you know what you want.
Ya sure haha you decide 🙂
Well during NC dont worry about him contacting you or not. Your job is to not contact him and take time to improve yourself.
So hit the gym, do stuff you like, go shopping, hang out with friends, get new clothes, go on dates, make new friends.
Enjoy life!
Post updates of you having fun on social media’s so he can envy being by your side having fun. So he can see you dont need him to be happy.
Stop worrying about him contacting you, stop over thinking it wont help you at all it will drag you down and make you depress trust me i experienced it.
Seriously work on you dont think about what he is doing or why he isnt contacting you or how much time went by because only when you are ready to speak to him is when it will be time and for that to happen you must stop being needy and unconfident because its unatractive.
I worked on myself and started talking to my ex, i wasnt feeling it at first but yesterday i got her to agree to a meet up.
So do not give up hope follow the 5 step plan and read everything on this blog do all the appropriate steps and everything will go fine even if you dont get your ex back you’ll have become a better you and you’ll be smarter 😉
Look my ex has known her best friend for 5 years they went threw highschool together. She hasnt dated him because he was a friend and she wasnt attracted to him.
Your ex like mine will realise that their filling a whole see both of us (you an i) were the best friends of our exes and lovers they replaced us by these friends because they are comfortable. They are not over us just give him time he will see you are in the begining f NC i understand your insecurities but you are a great person one that he once fell in love with and can do again! Show him what he lost :p
Yes go read the article of rebound relationships youll undersrand its exactly like the jane and garry story
Well before i started no contact she said we were done for the moment, then i spoke to her bff to tell her it hurts me that she says that and then she told her so my ex told me she dosent love me no more and its over.
2-3 weeks after we broke up she was seeing her guy best friend, wich i doubted their relationship, then became official a month and a week ago.
She know i know but dosent tell me still. So she is hidding it in a sense yet she said that she couldnt live without him on ask.
That relationship is moving very quickly therefore i believe its a rebound.
She is getting warmer to my texts now but i dont know if ive got a shot, apparently i would according to internet haha
So i’ll see haha
Well maybe he isnt fully over you but he could be using you for sex but he for sure dosent care much for his new gf.
Do the NC for 30 days and then contact him so he can make a decision if he is persistent on sleeping with you make him do a decision between you and the new girl thats what i would do to be honnest
But if i was the guy it would mean i’d still like you
No you dont you want him back in your life in the near future where all the mistakes that were made can be avoided, repeating the past is probably not what you want considering you dont want to re live that pain of the break up or fights you guys had
@ jessie2120
Its hard to understand whether or not their in a rebound, evaluate the facts and see.
But if you do love this guy you’ll never be over him you will always love him no matter what. You’ll get over the pain of the break up thats for sure but he will be on your mind from time to time.
Im sure at like 85% that the relationship my ex is in right now is a rebound because her things with the guy are moving realy fast, she is already saying she could not live without him after one month. She used to say that about me but i became that after 3 months.
The guy has the same hobbie as i do, good in school like me, takes care of her like i did. He took the spot i used to occupie in her heart, something she held dearly and was empty once she left me. Her best friend was around to help her out and then she started seeing him and then dating.
They started seeing each other 2-3 weeks after we broke up, they were official a month ago.
If what ive been reading recently is true, she is not over the break up she just found a guy who could take my place without the arguments we used to have or doubts i had about her friendship with her best friend..
And even if the fight is very hard to win and i have barely any chance to win i’m still going to try my best, i really love her and want her back!
Yes i hope so too for both of us, i’ll stay updated on your posts and help as much as i can 🙂
Best of luck! Dont give up :p
Thanks, but he will for sure and if she is the opposite it can mean that he is trying to change his mind off of you and he will realise she is not the kind of girl he likes and will most likely start thinking of you again if he isnt already. He will probably even message you first.
All you gotta do is stop contacting him and if he contacts you dont answer during NC after NC dont ac needy, try to be friendly then move thibgs forward 😉
You can do this i believe in you, remember as long as you have the will anything is possible 🙂
Well you can upload pics of you and other man not too much there, add new friends, do some interesting snapchat stories.
And he did not have enough time to miss you yet, try to stop thinking about him missing you or not, enjoy your life deal with the pain and improve yourself. Let things happen on their own he will miss you if it was a meaningfull relationship, my ex went for her bestfriend because he is like me, he takes care of her, makes her laugh when she is down and plays hockey like i used to so she is with him cuz she is trying to fill up the emptiness but he is not me he just dosent have the little fights we used to have together but if she dosent come back and stays with him well im glad i worked on myself and this experience made me grow as an individual, i am more matureand understand relationships much better then i used too
He is not reaching because he is trying to prove to himself that he can be happy without you (assuming your bf was sad about the break up) .
he is in the honeymoon phase right now of course he is happy but give it a month or two and he will realise what he lost thats why you must work on yourself so you can make him envy you again
