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  • #18826
    samuel
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    Just do NC only positive can come out of it!

    #18827
    aryyan
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    Im doing 21 days. Is it too soon?


    @samuel

    #18851
    samuel
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    @aryyan

    I would personaly push jt up to 30 i mean might as well haha. But the main objective is to work on yourself and to get better emotionaly and physicaly so if you are ready at 21 days go right ahead but make sure that your not a mess, you did positive changes, went on one date and understand that you might not get your ex back and that its now the end of the world if you dont because you have plenty of other possibilities.

    #18854
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    Well, its been 10 days and still no news. Im trying and trying to improve myself. Taking care of my skin, getting slimming, change my style, do some makeup and improve to better me. Its sad that he cant see it because im doing nc. I wont update till i finish my nc. I try my best to keep myself happy. I do miss him indeed. Honestly i really want him back. I really hope i have a chance. I feel like he is sp stubborn and so unfair to see him this happy and maintain the charming when with her! Urgh! Its been almost 7 weeks they been together.

    #18859
    samuel
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    You definetly have a chance whether or not its serious. Just keep on doing what your doing and you’ll be better, dont do it for him do it for you and he might not be as happy as you think haha

    #18866
    aryyan
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    Its been 11 days of nc and he email me! Oh my. Its so sudden and I just cant believe it. What should i do?


    @samuel

    #18876
    samuel
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    Dont answer stay true to NC

    But tell me what its about? If uts about you or both of you dont answer

    #18878
    samuel
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    #18900
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    He said where have you been? Why u dont reply anything?

    Yah its about me. Its really shocking he email me. Maybe becUse im shutting down my social media. I thought he really doesnt care about me. Its really hard but i have to stay strong. I know im not strong enough to be so ok qhen he has someone elae rigt mow

    #18903
    samuel
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    Good just hold yourself down, this is proof that he is thinking of you 🙂 its good news

    So just keep doing NC dont answer him until its over

    #18906
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    Its shocking but yah my nc did something that give him shows his respond which is good. I still cant believe it. Its a text from him

    How bout ur situation going? How qre u today?

    #18910
    samuel
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    Well its hard to say it took her more time then usual to answer maybe she was with the guy. But she told me she was kiding about the hot chocolate but i told her we could still go and she accepted. And i had trouble to make conversation because she had short answers and i had nothing to say -.-

    #18914
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    I do understand about the short answer things. We dont want to make it like needy but we really want to make it works. Do u try to send her like meme pictures? From 9gag or any sites that looks funny? What do u do now? Any interesting or new activities that u did? Maybe u can share with her. Did u text her everyday? Or maybe there is one day or two day nc a week?

    #18918
    samuel
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    I do days where i dont speak to her and i cant send meme cus she cant see them haha.

    But i realy dont know what to speak about :/

    #18919
    aryyan
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    @samuel

    Do u know what she likes? Maybe seafood or ice cream? Mybe u can say that to her about it. Or anything that remember like her but dont show that too much.

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