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Aww lovely! I can understand why your feeling like that bless you 🙁 I don’t even know what to say to make sense of any of it!
Well iv had a couple of drinks and I’m dying to text him 🙁It’s okay that’s what we’re for! Better us than giving him the satisfaction! 🙂
Don’t worry about swearing! We all have those days! I’m feeling a bit like it today too..I wouldn’t give him the time of day.. Right now he does not deserve it! He’s trying to get a response! If you feel you have to respond just say Yes, I understand! And leave it at that.. That will frustrate him! From the sounds of it he wants some drama and he isn’t getting it so he’s trying a different tactic!
If I were you I’d be thinking that the jokes on her.. She’ll be feeling really smug about it but let’s be honest, he isn’t doing it coz he wants to, he’s doing it to wind you up! So he’s using her.. He therefore values her lower than you! She sounds like someone who’s pretty easy and to be honest, if that’s what he’s into then your better of without him! That’s my opinion..
It’s like my ex had only ever slept with me and I thought maybe he wants to go out and sleep around and see if he can get it better elsewhere but then I thought if hes that kinda person, that values sex over love then he can ram it where the sun don’t shine, I’m not interested!
People have said to me since then that they don’t think its that, that he just wants to have no ties for a little while, but it still enters my mind occasionally x@annakis is right! The fact that he wants a reaction out of you means he cares a lot more than he lets on. If he didnt care, why would he even bother telling you? He’d probably hide it to save the drama.
Have you got plans tonight? If not i think you need to make some. And non that involve going to the cinema.. He will be expecting you to do something and its the best medicine to let him get on with it! That way the whole time he’ll be thinking, i wonder what shes doing or i wonder what shes thinking, why isnt she causing trouble for me?
By the sounds of it, she is THE person he knows will P*** you right off. Let him get on with it.. If you feel it will be beneficial to block his number then do, but only if you think it will help you, otherwise it is a rise out of you on his behalf.. xSorry i didnt see that one! WHAT AN ARSE!!!!!!
I wouldn’t even respond to that! He wants a reaction out of you, dont give him the satisfaction! Hope your okay! 🙁
He was obviously dying to tell you to see how youd react..It is pretty good! 🙂
Ahh man!! Has he replied yet? I bloody hate when they do that! Your right, its about control i think and them leaving us hanging.. Its like if they think that if they text back we’ll get the wrong idea and think they want us back.. Thats why im terrified of texting him at any point..
I wish Kevin gave advice from this point onwards.. Its all up until that initial contact and then i cant seem to find anything else from here! I know its because by now you should be able to do it yourself but a little guidance would be nice! 🙁
@atea1234 WOW! I just read this post and it actually had a real impact on me. Its all things ive thought or heard before, but the way you’ve written it is just so honest. You’re truly right – we cannot control them, they must come back IF THEY WANT TO. Noone wants a man who felt forced to come back do they?
In terms of ‘fate’ and ‘meant to be’ – i am a big believer in ‘everything happens for a reason’.. Now that reason could be that there is someone better out that that makes my ex seem like a schoolgirl crush (a mean feat after 6 years but you never know 😉 ) or it could be that we need this time apart to realise how much we actually love and care for each other and learn to appreciate that! I think we all just have to trust in that.. No matter what it is, something better will happen, and it’ll make you think, ahhh thats why.
@kaila I know what you mean about being scared of the relationship feeling so distant already. I think we do worry about this too much though! They say dumper/dumpee reactions are complete opposites dont they? Just as we’re starting to feel better, they are starting to feel worse? This may not make him come back but it’s a relief to think he may just be struggling with his emotions.
The fact you’ve been on a date is amazing. I really want to get out on one, but i haven’t met anyone yet where the oppurtunity has come up! I’ll have to crack on.. haha!Thanks! 🙂 I’m dead chuffed with that.. I didnt expect it at all!
I’d feel pretty darn amazing if i was you! You’ve done so well and now its worked in your favor! Well done you..
It must feel good to know you’ve now got the upper hand! 🙂
I know i need to try to be more optimistic but i am struggling with this feeling of dread that he will never come back! x
Two hours is perfectly adequate i think! 🙂
No i wouldnt reply to that! you’d just be replying for the sake of it.. and thats when they’ve can leave you hanging! It wouldnt suprise me if he doesnt send you another message if you don’t reply!
Yep, to be honest, i reply because i have to, like he’ll ask a question, i’ll respond and then he leaves me hanging! I don’t get him.. I do think im going to have to accept that he isnt and wont ever be interested again! 🙁
Yeah don’t be like that because it will be so obvious. Just say, yes it was lovely thankyou, did you? or something like that! 🙂 keep a bit of mystery! haha!
