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Oooh – tricky but exciting! The fact he has text means he WANTS to! Which is a great sign! 🙂 Check you out…
I think i would mirror his tone etc. Maybe leave it an hour, look like your not waiting for him to text but i wouldnt ignore it and i wouldnt be cold. I dont know if this gives you any help but hey. Also, try and be the one to finish the conversation and not text back.. I haven’t managed to do that yet and its always me that ends up being the last to text and it makes me feel crap! haha!
I am exactly the same!! But i know that any text to him now would go unanswered because hes having too much fun! Plus he told me he was going so it would look like i was specifically trying to ruin it or not letting him have his fun.. Which is not what i want at all.. I’m really hoping it will give him some thinking time away from work and he’ll come back and want to meet up again or text or something.. but i reckon this is false hope and he wont!
Yeah I’m the same! He’s flown to spain today for 5 days 🙁 feeling so distant from him! It’s really hurting..
IKnow what you mean.. Although I think I’d be an even better person with him now we’ve been apart! xIt definitely is! I was so ready to settle down and be a wife and a mummy (im only 24!!) with him! I knew it was so right.. Without him, those things no longer feel important! And that makes me really sad! 🙁
Everything your both saying is so true because before I was back in touch with my ex I was in a better mental place.. Now I’m analysing everything and trying to figure out what things meant and what I should do now and freaking out! I think it’s normal though.. At least I hope it is!
I feel that my chances are fading despite being back in touch.. But then I can’t help but feel that he’s going to come back to me, like a deep gut feeling that I can’t explain! I don’t know whether it’s just that I can’t picture a future without him or what! Don’t get me wrong, I know I can have a future without him and a happy one, I just can’t picture it with the same clarity as I do with him! xIm sure the lighthouse is representing something too! haha! I will google..
Yes i think you should do this! And post so many pictures on facebook.. He’ll hear that youve gone out and had fun and wonder why he didnt hear from you this time. My sister is have a hula party on friday night so im looking forward to that! I am going to be very nice and drunk i think 🙂 I deserve it!
Yes i agree. I think i want to know but then i think if i knew and it was relief or gladness then i would be heart broken! x
@KD1988 I think that’s too obvious – dreams arent usually a prediction, more a subconscious sign! It could be that your feeling your competing for his emotions with something else, or that you feel he won’t commit.
I thought that. I also thought it was like that i was happy with where we had come, but he wanted more adventure and wanted to push himself further. Which is actually very true. And my fear isn’t so much him falling, but him leaving me behind due to my fear to fall? All very philosophical but it makes sense i guess!
@KD1988 Ooh that sounds horrible! 🙁 Dreams are the weirdest! How are you feeling now? It always affects my whole mood for the day if i have a dream like that!
I had a dream the night before last where me and my ex were together and we were going up some stairs in a lighthouse and all of a sudden we had reached the top of the stairs but he wanted to go on the roof, and he kept trying to climb over the railings and it was really windy so i kept begging him not to because i thought he would fall and i was crying saying please, please dont. And then i woke up, i didnt get to the part where he did or didnt. Go figure that out eh? Ha!@kd1988 I can too! Shame I don’t want to.. I’m feeling so hard done by! Haha! It’s just not fair!
It’s scaring me that the balls in his court now, what if he never try’s to get in touch? Argh!@kd1988 yes your right! I do have moments of complete panic, where I feel really stressed and just want to text him and tell him everything and how much I miss him.. It’s not like an upset it’s like a can’t cope feeling! It’s weird..
@annakis you’re right to think you shouldn’t expect one but I can understand why you would! xLiterally, nothing. I think im still coming to terms with it.. I thought i was losing the ‘fight’ in me to get him back but i realised today i am not! I can’t give him up, i just can’t. I just dont know what to do to get him to come back! I know i cant do anything technically, but i need to make him realise! 🙁 argh! Feeling so helpless.
Haha Corfu sounds amazing! Some sun and relaxing, so jealous! I need to find something to do for definite!
That sounds amazing! I keep hinting at my friends but theyre all loved up so going away with their boyfriends and the ones that aren’t are skint! Eurgh!
Yes probably! Argh!
I really miss him today! I was just thinking about it on my drive back from the dentist.. A song was on that was played a million times on our holiday to cornwall last year, and it just took me right back. We had such an amazing, romantic, chilled out week and i can’t believe i don’t get that with him again..
Yes i know what you mean. That day feels a very long away for me. It didnt until Monday but now it does again.. Are you going away anywhere nice?
So i just got back from the dentist and its nothing apparently. Just a bit of bone that i’ve never noticed before and iv irritated it and thats brought it to my attention. The face swelling and throat problems must be something else according to the dentist. Great!
That sounds like the best plan! 🙂 Dwelling get us nowhere!
I’m hoping they just take them out and be done with it ha! I know its not that easy though.. Maybe some sympathy will bring him back? Hahah!
I’m okay today! I dont expect to hear from him as he’s going abroad for 5 days with his friends from tomorrow so my hopes are not high to hear from him before he goes.
Asides from him i am not good. I’ve got an emergency dentist appt this morning to try and figure out what is going out with my wisdom teeth! Theyre in agony, my face is swollen and i can barely swallow – all good news! Not. Haha! Definitely not the look to pull your ex eh? haha!
How are you doing? x
